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| *Women health>>>Anxiety Disorders |
Am i suffering social anxiety disorder? |
im i having this disordr?i kinda hate myself.i know im a serious person,but i can be a cheerful person most of the time,but i dont know whats wrong wit me,my friends,dont respect me,like they dont care what am i saying.if i talk to them,they just simply nodd thier heads,then dont say anything and then just turn away and talk to someone else.it hurts my feeling.i feel bad about myselt.what a pathetic.am i not mature thats why they dont want to listen to me?or maybe im not funny,i made bad jokes?all of my classmates are cheerful,except me.when i try to be like them,i just cant be...now im thinking bad bout myself.maybe i dont know how to talk to people.whn i was in early teenage,i seldom socialise cuz i kept studying.i spent most of my time raeding.but surely im not a nerd,i like socializing,it just that i didnt have time n now,a cant talk and not fun like any other teenagers of my age.im not fun..im afraid to make friends n be with my classmates cuz im afraid they ll get bored.help me Making friends can be hard but being your self is the key to keeping real friends. You are a person with qualities all your own learn to identify them and love them. Alot of people aren,t funny or as outgoing as some others and alot of people tell rotten jokes(me for one). If you feel down in the dumps alot seek help. Tell your doctor, he or she can help. Not everyone is the Social Butterfly types that some are-- don,t stress over it. Just do what is fun for YOU. If socializing is hard for you then practice doing it ,you,ll get better at it if you become comfortable with it. Find your comfort zone . Chill out your cool--your you!!!! Please ask your parents to help you find a suitable mental health professional. You need to see a therapist or psychiatrist. Us yahoos are not qualified to help you. However, I will give you some hope. Things do get better with time and work in therapy. BTW: Yes you are suffering anxiety and depression (not sure if it's social anxiety). i'm sorry , you are a female and have all these problems? whoa!! slow down!! it sounds to me like you are thinking about this way to much!! first of all, be yourself no matter who u are around, trying to impress people will only harm you in the long run, you'll eventually grow tired of it and then (like now) you'll be so stressed about it that you'll actually lose sleep over something like this. Be who you know how to be and the friends that are right for you will naturally flock your way. Being around people who share your same interest is really what you're going for anyways right? so BE YOURSELF!!! and you'll be a lot happier the first answer was the best, go get help. i have the same problem but iam different i can take care of myself so if you can not figure it out yourself go get help. It sounds like you have absolutely no confidence in yourself at all. I believe that you do have social anxiety disorder and you also sound extremely depressed too. Have you gone to a therapist to talk about your problems? If not maybe you should. I believe that the Therapist will recommend you seeing a Psychiatrist for you to be put on medication for your problems. There is more going on inside of you than what you think. If you read what you wrote everything in it is negative. Your friend don't like you, you are not funny, and the list goes on and on. Do yourself a favor and have one of your parents make an appointment with a Psychiatrist so that you may start feeling better about yourself. I hope that with therapy you can get rid of that negative attitude. Good Luck First don't ever try to be like someone else. Always be yourself. There is nothing wrong with liking to read and study. You cant expect others to warm up to you if you dont like yourself. If your friends ignore you then they really arent worth your time any way and find some new friends. Join some after school clubs or since you are good at reading and like doing so you can always help out tutoring some kids with their reading and doing so you will meet all kinds of new people. Maybe the kids you now talk to act like that with you but others wont. Just be yourself and try not to force yourself on people and since you do alot of reading you must know alot of interesting things so why would others be bored? You dont have to be funny for people to like you either . You just have to be your self. |
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