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My girlfriend has bipolar disorder, how do I deal with it? |
My girlfriend has bipolar disorder, how do I deal with it? Just no matter what happens keep in mind how much you love her. I'm bipolar and my fiance and I have been together since before I was diagnosed, way back when I was just nutters with no reason to explain it. Apparently if you're together long enough you'll start to know when it's all about to go south. Also keep in mind that she might not mean everything she says all the time. I know I'm said some pretty hateful things to my fiancee over the years when I wasn't feeling entirely myself. I'd also suggest you tell her you love her whenever she gets upset...I know personally it helps me to hear someone honestly say they love me even when I'm at my worst. Good luck to both of you! Your in for a whild ride if she doesnt take her treatment seriously.You have to be open and understanding and very emotionaly strong for her.Make sure she takes her meds and be intrsted in her situation. Develope a very thick skin.Its not easy because of the unpredictable nature of this disorder.Good Luck and Hold on If you love her enough, then you will find ways to deal with it. I have bipolar, and it is very hard for my boyfriend to deal with it. Know that there will be long periods of time that she will need to sleep. You can help her by making sure that she takes her medication. My boyfriend helps me just by being there for me... when I have my breakdowns, he always lets me cry on him and calms me down. I told him from the very beginning, "If you can't handle this...then just leave right now rather than later." The question is: can you handle this? If you can, then be there for her as much as you can. Wrap your arms around her when she's having her meltdowns, and talk her through it. She will appreciate you more than you can ever imagine... I don't know, sorry Educate yourself. Learn everything you can about Bipolar Disorder. Learn how to deal with the outbreaks. Then you will be better able to help her through the outbursts. You will know what to say and what not to say. This should bring the both of you closer. That is, if you care about her enough to learn. I used to go out with a guy who was bipolar. This is my advice: If she stays on her meds, handles her emotions well, and holds down a job or pursues an education, then there should be no problem. She can lead a normal life. But staying on her meds is the key. If she refuses to take her meds, you will have major ordeals. If she can't function properly, then you can't either. That's not fair for you. If you love her, I understand. But you must set an ultimatum with her and follow through. If she doesn't stay on her meds and ends up in the hospital, leave her. Sounds harsh, but that's what I did. And if I hadn't, I would still be stuck babysitting my ex. honey, that's a tough one - i am bipolar as well - it is almost just as hard on us - we hate to have this disorder. i wish you lots of luck and patience. i finally found the right medication and i hope your girl does too. |
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