The Surgeon was not friendly or patient at all. She seemed annoyed that I'd ask questions and was very rude. Should I go through with the procedure under someone that I don't feel comfortable with? Even if she is highly recommended? DO NOT go to a PS if you feel they are not going to be helpful with you!
You should see at least THREE PS's before deciding on who to operate on you. I went with my second one because my first one did not answer my questions.
You could always call her up and tell her how she made you feel when you were asking the questions, and complain about her rudeness. See how she reacts. If she's still rude, go with someone else.
You do not need someone to operate on you that is rude and will not answer your questions.
If you are in the NOVA area I have a recommendation for you.
Good luck! I would NOT go through with the surgery if you are at all uncomfortable. I would suggest you find someone you are completely comfortable with. I mean, we are talking about you body, your life. That's serious. Any good Dr would understand your concern and be more than happy to answer any questions and do whatever it takes to make sure you are totally comfortable witht he procedure. I would find other doctor, she is too occupied with more then she can handle.
But you need to take it up with other people involved, husband , boy friend, parents.
If you need to loose weight then please wait do that first.
Breast can be reduce by just exercising, when you loose weight it comes off proportionately so you will reduce its size by good amount, breast is all fat tissue, so you will loose a size or two.
Please do go to medical supply store and have yourself fitted with good support bra till you find another doctor to operate on you.
Some sport store may have simillar fitting service.
Please read my articles and do as you please. Other things are less painfull and cheaper too.
Here is my answer to another such Q?
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Q. Cant a woman reduce her breast???
A.
By
minootoo.
Yes.
Few methods:
1. Breast reduction surgery.
This is done to eliminate the back pain, or if the person desire it for cosmetic reason.
2. When a person looses weight they loose it proportionately. Breast tissue or mammary gland are all fat tissue so there will be a considerable noticeable amount of reduction in this area, during weight loss.
3. Just by dressing in certain way they can be made to look smaller.
4. Few other tricks are possible.
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Tips for Loosing Weight
By
minootoo
You must count calories and at least in initial stages write down what you are going to eat and when then stay on that list. Your total calories for the week must not exceed, 1500 x 7 = 10,500 calories this will give you leave way to indulge at special occasions like wedding and parties, but you must write down what you eat and account for the calories latter and adjust the total intake next week.
Please read my article on this subject and follow them.
While at it build your body too, while reducing by doing body parts specific exercises.
If you are not too old, then best way to reduce your weight is to increase your height.
Vegetarians have a big advantage, in loosing weight, it cost less and they can satisfy the hunger more easily, some vegetables have only 1 calorie per pound, so they can fill themselves up with it before enjoying each meal, and never go hungry.
Most people should take one a day water soluble multi-vitamins when on this program; they can be purchased at the pharmacy near you.
http://www.scientificpsychic.com/fitness...
http://www.halls.md/body-mass-index/bmi....
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Life Style Change Program for Loosing Weight
By
minootoo
Who needs to loose weight?
Answer is simply not every one, only the over weight person.
Who is over weight?
This is simple, it is easy to find out and it is available on line, it is call Body Mass Index, and calculations are simple. According to this calculation if you find your self say only 10 pounds more, you may not be over weight. Remember every one is slightly different and you can just watch it, on your own and not let it get out of hand.
What is the reason for being over weight?
This is also simple, have doctor check you out for any physical or hormonal abnormalities. The doctor should be advising you of your ideal weight even though you have already figured out the ideal weight and you are seen a doctor because your weight is not where it should be according to BMI.
Basic understanding of loosing weight.
Every one uses calories at all time. There may be some exceptions to this rule, for most of us; the rate of use, even when we are resting, we use 65 calories per hour minimum. This comes to1560 calories per day. The actual range is between 65 and 100 calories per hour. This is consistent with heart rate of 60 to 80 bits per minute.
Simply put any person eating only say 1500 calories a day will not put on any additional weight. At this level of calories consumption the person should loose some weight over long haul, depending on the individual rate of metabolism.
What is a healthy weight loss?
When one tries to loose weight, one should loose excess fat; there should be a healthy loss of weight. Loosing muscles tissue is unhealthy.
How much is one pound of body fat?
One pound of body fat weight is approximately same as one pound of butter. If you look at a one pound package of butter, you will see it contains between 3200 to 3600 calories. This means that each time a person burns 3600 more calories then what the person takes in, the person will loose one pound.
How many pounds should a person loose in a month?
Any one that is trying to trim down can figure out how long it took to put on the excess pounds. The fact is; it did not happen over night. It usually creeps up, but the person realizes one day suddenly.
This is why a person should not be in a hurry to loose weight. The person should start at once but go slowly. Do not wait for New Year.
Taking above in to consideration a person should not loose more then 2 pounds per month. If a person looses any thing more then that, chances are that the person will not be able to maintain the weight loss. It will take extra efforts to loose and it will take extra efforts to keep it off. Remember slow and steady wins the race.
When an overweight person should start loosing weight?
At once. The person should not be in a hurry to loose weight. The person should start at once but go slowly. Again do not wait for New Year.
How does body react to weight lose?
Any time there is depletion of fat beyond certain level, the body reacts by slowing down metabolism, so that it can build up fat. If the body is use to say 2000 calories per day and detects only 1500 calories per day for considerable length of time it reacts to the situation by reducing the rate of metabolism. When this happens one need to help body by increasing activity. Usually takes about four weeks for body to react.
What is the relationship between body and body fat?
Under ideal condition fat act as a reserved energy source for our body. Certain level of fat is good for healthy living and even may save our life in certain life threatening situations. Every one should have minimum required level of fat on their body.
What if there is no weight loss at 1500 calories in take level?
This is a rear occurrence. Do not panic. The body has slowed down the metabolism to such a great extent that you must help it. The only way to help is to increase activities, this means you have to exercise. You do not need to join Gym but you can go on an an half an hour walk every day or batter still engage in a power walk for same duration. Power walk burns 250 calories per hour and walk burns 100 calories per hour approximately.
What is the importance of body fat for a female?
Females require little more body fat then men. In the absence of certain required level of body fat, females are not able to function properly; in particular they may not be able to conceive. You can find lot more about this on internet.
At 1500 calories intake per day what one must drink and eat?
Drink
One gallon of liquids most of witch should be in the form of water (zero calories).
Calories should be accounted for all other liquids.
Why water?
Water is a universal solvent, means it dissolves almost every thing at least in very minute quantities. This helps purification of body.
Eat
What should be your proportionate in take of fat, Proteins and Complex Carbohydrates?
This depends on what your need are.
1.Need to reduce fat.
Fat: 10 percent of 1500 calorie per day = 150 calories.
Complex Carbohydrates: 30 percent of 1500 calories per day = 450 calories.
Proteins: 60 percent of 1500 calories per day = 900 calories.
2.Need more energy.
Fat: 10 percent of 1500 calorie per day = 150 calories.
Complex Carbohydrates: 40 percent of 1500 calories per day = 450 calories.
Proteins: 50 percent of 1500 calories per day = 750 calories.
3.Need to reduce weight only.
Fat: 25 percent of 1500 calorie per day = 375 calories.
Complex Carbohydrates: 25 percent of 1500 calories per day = 375 calories.
Proteins: 50 percent of 1500 calories per day = 750 calories.
4.Need to increase muscles bulk, but still reduce weight.
Fat: 10 percent of 1500 calorie per day = 150 calories.
Complex Carbohydrates: 15 percent of 1500 calories per day = 225 calories.
Proteins: 75 percent of 1500 calories per day = 1125 calories.
Exercise the muscles you want to develop, you can find right exercise on line, recommend use of light weights.
Foot note: To take fat is so important, while reducing even fat, that it is included in all cases. If the fat is completely cut out, body will think of producing the fat, and will produce the fat by reducing metabolism, without fat in take, you may actually again weight even at lower than 1500 calorie level. You will feel run down and lethargic.
How one must, drink and eat?
Drink
Every one may not be able to follow this regime.
A 16 oz glass of water first thing in the morning will be very healthy start.
If you need to stabilize your stomach before eating, you can have a glass of water just before each and every meal. This is the easiest way to meet your quota of gallon of liquids.
Eat
To day almost half the world is starving.
In western culture. Standard healthy practice for long time was three warm square meals per day. No eating in between, but children were allowed night cap.
All that has changed, present thinking is 5 to 6 times per day. Any way what practice one follows is up to them; to each his own.
Another best practice will be a glass of water before bed time, nothing to eat for two hours before bed time.
How do I know the calorie count for various drinks and food?
If you are buying packaged items it is on the package.
Go on the internet and find the calorie information.
Lots of cook book now a days list calorie per serving.
Use your best guess, in this meth I would not go through with the surgery, personally. Someone who is rude and unwilling to answer questions is NOT someone you want performing surgery on you. There are plenty of other surgeons out there who are both very good and very willing to answer questions, and you would be better off with one of them. But do whatever feels right to you. A breast reduction is not emergency surgery. You need to find a surgeon who respects you and your right to ask questions. I had a breast reduction years ago...I'm quite happy, but I could not have had something so important done by someone I didn't trust. Don't worry about offending the doctor. This is YOUR body. Find the surgeon that's right for you. Good Luck! if you don't feel comfy, dont go with it when she is doing it!
it doesnt matter what people say about her, it only matters how you feel about her.
find someone equally professional, who is nicer than her!
and if you dont want to listen to my advice, if she screws up, you can sue her. Watch out!
Make sure you ask about the included lobotomy that comes with breast reductions. My ex-wife had a breast reduction, and no one told us it came with a complimentary lobotomy. A month later, she was no longer in love with me, and left me.
EDIT: Oh for cryin' out loud, people...you who gave me the thumbs down...get a sense of humor, will ya? Doctors are people too. They have good days and bad.
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