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Breastfeeding...why my son won't take the boobs anymore?


usually I nurse him through the night.. at day time i nurse him 1-3 times and give him bottle of expressed milk (he's been on bottle since 1 weeks old)..

but, since the last 2 days, he refuse to take the boobs.. Is he weaning? I want to nurse him AT LEAST for 6 months - 1 year old..

He's 5 months and 10 days old (born 35 weeks premature).. Exclusively breastfeed and haven't start solid yet

He's probably not weaning himself yet; he's too young for that. He may be teething, and that makes nursing a little more difficult. Or, he may have found that drinking from a bottle is easier, so he'd rather do that. Don't give up breastfeeding; just keep trying it. Try to feed him before he's starving, and you may get less of a fight. If all else fails, contact a lactation consultant. They are wonderful at helping you with breastfeeding.

He's certainly not weaning, that would never happen in a baby so young (think back a couple of hundred years, if a baby so young weaned itself, there would be no sufficient way for it to feed, no formula etc, so it wouldn't survive). This is a nursing strike. What have you been doing to feed him the last few days? have you been expressing and offering a bottle? Unfortunately if you keep doing this he will likely get too used to it and not want to nurse anymore, as milk comes out alot easier from a bottle. Wait till he's hungry (but don't starve him) and offer the breast, keep offering, both sides. Try doing this with you both in a nice warm bath. Also try nursing him when he's sleeping.

When you say he "refuses" what does he do exactly? If he goes on and off several times it could be that he is distracted, so make sure to feed him in a quiet, even dark room or throw a light scarf over your shoulder to cover his head. It could be that he is teething and that it is feeling funny. It could be that he is impatient because your flow has changed (not the amount of milk but read the next part though) so he is getting imaptient. Do you nurse on a schedule? If you do, your supply may be decreasing so the best way to get over that is to nurse often and whenever he wants. Or yes it could be that if he is getting more bottles than "boobs", your supply has changed or your flow has changed and he prefers the bottle. Solution? Avoid the bottle if you can for a while until he is back to nursing comfortably and your supply is up again (if the supply is an issue). Good luck!

I started looking after my nephew when my sister went back to work, he was 8 months old, from that day he started self weaning much to my sisters dismay and the health visitors disbelief.

It sounds like your son may be doing the same, having it out of a bottle is easier and maybe he just likes getting his food that way. Keep trying, it might just be a brief thing and chances are if he gets really upset only booby will do

5 months old is far too early for any baby to self-wean. He may, however, be finding the bottle to be easier.

If you dont' have to give bottles, don't. Just nurse him. If he's hungry enough, he'll nurse. Once he back to nursing well, if you must give the occassional bottle, you can try cautiously reintroducing it.

I'm not sure why he won't take milk from you. But, you can still breastfeed without him taking it directly from you. A friend of mine had a similar problem. She would pump breast milk and store it in bottles in the fridge. When feeding time came around, she would heat a bottle up and feed her son.

After feeding time, or when she had a chance, she'd pump more milk.

by mixing the two.. you may have confused your baby and he is relising that having a bottle is easier and less work.. if you want to continue b/f baby then i would cut out using a bottle for a few days and see if he improves.

with my son at 4 months he got distracted and wasnt interested and he was ready to go onto the bottle..

good luck

mum of 4

My son did this at around the same age. I ended up with mastitis! You need to speak to your health visitor or GP to get further advice. My son ended up being given formula, but don't stress too much if you end up giving formula milk, at least you will have given him the best possible for his first 6 months.

breastfeeding is harder for him to do that bottles. The bottle it just comes out and from the breast he has to suck and whatnot and maybe he realized he doesn't have to work for it. Just a thought good luck.

He thinks the bottle is easier. The milk has a different type of flow than the bottle.

Maybe your Partner has threatened him...LOL

c'mon thats gold.......:)

No he's not weaning he has "nipple preference" (sometimes called "nipple confusion") caused by giving bottles.

Most people think that nipple preference only happens the fist 6 weeks -that's a lie it can happen at any time.

At this point you need to get him off bottles and onto a cup or other feeding method and then coax him back to the breast.

http://www.drjaygordon.com/development/b...
Signs of Nipple Preference

* Compromised latch that makes mom's nipples sore
* Fussing at the breast (Hey, Mom, it isn't working fast enough)
* Flailing arms and legs (this is the "why isn't there milk pouring out" motion)
* Pushing away from the breast with hands (this is the "I'm going to MAKE it come out motion)
* Latching and unlatching over and over
* Crying and turning head away
* Outright screaming and complete refusal to latch


http://www.kellymom.com/bf/concerns/baby...
Help -- My Baby Won't Nurse!

By Kelly Bonyata, BS, IBCLC

* Introduction
* The Basics
o Follow the Rules
o Suggestions for a typical nursing session
o Feed the Baby!
* Maintaining milk supply when baby is not nursing
* Coaxing baby to the breast
o General Tips
o "Instant Reward" techniques
o Rebirthing
* Working with a baby who is actively resisting nursing
* Bottles - yes or no?
* Nursing Strikes
* Links to Additional Information
o General
o Nursing Strikes

Introduction

The following techniques have proven helpful for a wide range of problems with baby refusing the breast. Some of the babies who might benefit include:

* a newborn (or older adopted baby) trying to figure out how to breastfeed
* a previously-weaned baby whom you wish to breastfeed again
* a baby who seriously resists nursing (or even being placed in a nursing position)
* a baby with nipple confusion
* a baby who is a fussy nurser (but does not completely refuse the breast)
* a baby on a nursing strike

Even if you have a baby who adamantly resists nursing, getting your baby to breast is very possible but it will probably require time, patience, and kangaroo-style frequency. Expect "two steps forward and one step backward."

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I leave my babies infrequently, but when Walden was six months old, I needed to leave her for two hours with my husband. I left plenty of pumped milk and lots of instructions for Walter. Among his many options for feeding the baby, he chose to use the bottle. She took to it well and fell asleep in his arms. I nursed her immediately after I walked in the door and she latched on fine.

The next day was a different story. She was fussy at the breast for most of the day and in the evening she bit me. The day after that was even worse. She bit me so hard that I yelled, and that triggered a six-hour nursing strike. I was scared to nurse her again for fear of being bitten, and she refused to latch on. Finally, she became sleepy and we nursed lying down in a dark room.

At one point, while I was carrying her around in an attempt to calm her, we walked past the drying rack in the kitchen, and she reached out for the bottle! I felt awful! That was the clue that made my co-Leader suggest that the bottle triggered the nursing strike. I had thought she was too old to have trouble switching between bottle and breast, especially since she seemed to nurse well just after she had the bottle.

Then I remembered that my older daughter also had problems with artificial nipples. When Meridian was 14 months old, I was providing childcare for other young children and they used bottles. One day, Meridian decided that she needed one, too. I gave her one filled with water. For the next week nursing was very uncomfortable for me, and she left teeth imprints on my breast, which she had never done before. Things did improve, and after that I avoided giving her bottles even to play with.

We say babies have "nipple confusion" if they have difficulty breastfeeding after using artificial nipples, whether bottles or pacifiers/dummies. The term is usually associated with newborn babies, and some authorities disagree about how significant it is. Whatever the label, it makes sense that an older baby might struggle, too. He can bite on an artificial nipple (or on a cup with a spout) with no consequences. Sometimes, a mother may even be unaware that her baby is biting these inanimate objects. But she can't fail to notice when he does the same thing at the breast.

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Your baby has been nursing well for months, then suddenly begins refusing the breast. What does it mean? Is there something wrong with your milk? Is baby sick? Is baby ready to wean?

A baby who refuses to breastfeed may not necessarily be ready to wean. If the baby is younger than a year and has not been eating much solid food or drinking from a cup, it's unlikely that he or she is ready to give up breastfeeding. More than likely the baby has gone on a nursing strike.

A nursing strike is a baby's way of communicating that something is wrong, and most babies who go "on strike" are obviously unhappy about it. Some nursing strikes come on suddenly, others more gradually. But a nursing strike does not have to mean the end of breastfeeding. If a mother encourages her baby to return to breastfeeding, a nursing strike usu

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