I got chlamydia from my ex/ Help?

My ex and I have been sleeping together for a year now. I haven't been with anyone but him and I found out I have chlamydia. He has a girlfriend who he has been back and forth with and she does not seem like the type to cheat and he swears up and down that he is only sleeping with me and her, Its more likely that he cheated then her because she is so much in love with him so am I. I just want to know if by your opinion is it him or can I have caught chlamydia another way, I have never had an STD and his girlfriend does not look or act like the cheating type. Do you think he is sleeping with more people than just me and her? And I confronted him and he said his girl got tested and she came back with a UTI. (I honestly think she knew she had chlamydia and didn't want to deal with the fact that he has cheated on her so she just told him she had UTI to not confront him). Is it him what do you think?

you play, you pay. Who LOOKS like the cheating type? I've never seen one yet that does.....

No, you can't catch chlamydia any other way, and yes he is probably cheating on both of you.

You know the old saying " ...you play and you pay...." Please explain to me what the cheating type looks like. At this point is it really a issue if she gave it to him....or he got it from somewhere else....the issue you have to deal with right now is that you have chlamydia and you need to go in for treatment.
And maybe he should finally stay you EX....and not on the creep. Good Luck .

Well, since you don't really know his new g/f, there's no way of knowing if she is being honest or not. It IS very possible that you got chlamydia from her, but it may not be because she was cheating on him. Maybe she had it BEFORE she met him, and didn't know about it. Then when you two started sharing him, it got transferred to you.

However...It's also VERY LIKELY that you got it from your ex from him cheating. As you know, men don't get the symptoms, but they do carry it - so he may have gotten it and given it to both you and her.

In my experience, if someone doesn't feel bad about cheating on their significant other, they won't feel worse depending on how many times they cheat, or how many people they cheat with. If your ex has kept you around as a consistent "sideline thing" for a year, he's likely not been faithful to you. YOU KNOW FOR A FACT that he's cheating on his woman, and YOU KNOW FOR A FACT that he's getting away with it. THEREFORE, he has the "ability" to get away with sleeping with other people as well.

To be honest, despite the fact that you love this guy, you've wasted a year of your dating life. Even if he miraculously left his g/f for you (something he obviously won't do if it's been a year and he's STILL with her on and off), you wouldn't have a good relationship with him. You KNOW he's able to cheat and get away with it, so even if he were suddenly become faithful (again, something he's not likely to do since he knows you'll put up with NOT being the only one), you'd never be able to trust him. You'd always suspect, and you'd always wonder. Every time he goes out with his friends, goes to see his family...you'd wonder what he's really doing. And that's no type of worthwhile relationship at all.

Forget about figuring out where you got chlamydia. Use it as a wake-up call and get a move on. You deserve more than a sideline thing that gives you STD's. You deserve to be someone's ONLY person, and you deserve a clean bill of health.

Hopefully this helps a bit. Good luck!

I think you are lucky you did not get something as bad as other diseases. I hope that you have dumped him. And I cannot believe that you are ok with him sleeping with another girl? If he truly LOVED you he would only want yuo to himself and not share. You are making it sound as its ok - I love him and I got Chlam but hes slepping with his ex - thats already cheating.
I may sound like I am yelling at you - but think about it - it never having kids or a Normal sex life ever again - was it worth it?? You are looking for other women to feel sorry for you but we probably wont. And I bet you are in your teens too. Which is sad. If women stop settling for bits and pieces - and stop acting like trash then maybe chivalry wouldnt be dead. Hey - he is cheating on both of you - if one girl is not enough - thehn he has two - and then three and heck why not a #4. And you obviously dont cvare enough about yourself to protect your body. Your body=your temple. You need to think about what you are getting out of this relationship - and get out of it before it gets worse.

tell him to sod off and find a better guy.

Sex is the only way to catch it.