Chlamydia - running boyfriend!!!!?

I have taken a test for chlamydia because I was worried about irregular bleeding. We are both faithful and I trust him completely but I have had unprotected sex in previous relationships. When I told him I had the test, he freaked. Totally shut down and ignored me, then left, now I can't get in contact with him. I am worried about him and I don't want this to be the end of our relationship - normally very good!!! I took it as a precaution (Previous tests have come back negative) but now I am regretting it. What can I say to him to ease his mind??? I get the results back in 5 days. Any advice appreciated!

You don't say how old your boyfriend is, but he's acting like a baby. There are so many red flags here, I don't even know where to start. The issue here is not your bleeding and the STD test, it's your boyfriends irrational response to your informing him of the test. It's immature to take off as he did. Responsible partners stick around and listen- he made a snap decision about what your test meant (cheating?), completely "shut down" and physically removed himself from you, thus taking away any chance for you to explain things. He sounds like an immature control freak. If he doesn't come around very soon and agree to see a counselor with you, I would dump him. He's setting a precedent in your relationship concerning how difficult topics are dealt with, and trust me...you don't want a partner to react to hard news the way your b.f. is.
Take care...

I would be glad that my partner told me. In women, irregular bleeding can come from MANY things, not just STDS. Perhaps he thinks that you are taking the test because you think he has been unfaithful or something of the like. I would talk to him about it. Explain to him that you are concerned about your health because you would like to have a long healthy life with him. I am glad that you are atleast concerned about your body. There are many women these days who aren't. Good luck to you. I'm sure telling him about the test was a bit of a shock because you both are faithful and have trust. A lot of men don't want to hear about their partners prior sexual/romantic relationships, but explain to him that you want him to be healthy too and are looking out for his interests as well. Explain that you are sure the test is negative, but you needed to check all options in your irregular bleeding as the cause can be hard to diagnose at times. Best wishes!

Some guys have trouble feeling attracted to a woman if she could have a disease. Some guys are very sensitive if they imagine that you had ever been with someone else. If he is treating you like this over getting a test, imagine how he would treat you if you ever actually had a problem. He doesn't seem mature enough to handle a real relationship. If you do get a hold of him you can tell him it's normal for women to get checkups yearly to make sure they don't have any diseases.

I really feel sad for today's young people because a huge percentage of kids under 15 have chlamydia. This is a sign that they are not valuing themselves enough to get into a mature relationship before they take off their pants. I really hope I can protect my daughter from that. (She's 7 now).