Has anyone ever had chlamydia?

How did you take it when you found out? How did you get it? Did it affect your relationship with your partner? What consequences did you pay?

Hey sista!!! lol defianatly has affected both of our lifes drastically trust issues all

I have had it, Im not sure if i brought it into the relationship or my boyfriend.I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years when we found it. There was no issue of not trusting each other as i have not cheated or him. If i brought it in then my ex must of cheated as we both got tested at the start of our relationship.

We did not have no symptoms or signs. I miscarried a year before i found out so any signs or cramps i would of missed anyway And assumed it was because the miscarriage because it sent my cycle out of wack. It did not effect my relationship at all, we never had any trust issues. My consequences are quite sad as i had a scan which shows 2 small amounts of fluid in my tubes, got a hcg in january to see if blocked and how much

I have only been with one guy my whole life. He told me he got tested with his last girlfriend, who cheated on him after he got tested and was clean. I had a normal discharge, but one day it seemed like there was more of it, especially at night. And then, in the moment, my boyfriend said that my scent changed. He said it didn't smell bad, but it wasn't as sweet smelling as it used to be. I asked him again if he got tested for STD's and he said yes. A couple days later, I got the urge to pee frequently, but little came out, and my pee was dark yellow and smelled awful. I figured it was just a UTI. Also, after we had sex and I peed, it hurt so bad that I would cry. I had never had sex before and figured he thrusted too hard or something. We didn't use condoms and relied on the "pull-out" method.

Then, six months after my first symptoms started, I went to the county health department for birth control. They said I didn't have a reason to have a pelvic exam since I had only been sexually active for 6 months, but I demanded one because I knew something wasn't right. The doctor said I had a lot of discharge and a distinct smell and should be tested for STD's. I peed in the cup, telling myself that I didn't have anything because he was "clean".

The next week, I got a phone call from a restricted number, so I didn't pick it up. It was a guy from the health dept claiming that I forgot to fill out a portion of the parental consent form or something like that. I called him back and he said, "Are you around the clinic? Can you get here as soon as you can. You tested positive, but please don't worry it's curable..." I was driving in front of my boyfriend (I was in my car and he was in his behind me) and we were going to WalMart to get groceries when I got this news. I pulled into the parking lot and started screaming at him. "You cheated on me, I ****** hate you, you gave me an STD" blah blah blah. I threw all of his things out of my car. I hit him, I slapped him, I kicked his car, and did everything imagineable. lol I was just so angry and mad. I was bawling my eyes out and he had no expression. That made me even more mad. We got 7 days of Doxycycline and have only had sex once (protected of course) since then (it's been almost three months).

I just feel different. I feel like I can't trust him anymore. I know he didn't know, but still. We now have a lot of trust issues and everytime he makes me mad, I through the fact that he gave me Chlamydia in his face. And since then, we have been fighting about everything. I honestly don't know how much longer we're going to last. We were planning on getting married, but that is long gone. I just don't trust him. He didn't cheat on me, but the whole trust issue is still there and I hate it. We never fought until this happened.

As for consequences, since I had it for 6 months, there is an increased chance that I will develop PID. I've been having really bad cramps this month (and I don't get any) and am going to the doctor on Thursday for them. Hopefully, they are just cramps and the doctor won't tell me anything bad. Another consequence is that I have no sex drive at all. Just the thought of STD's turns me off. Especially since I contracted one, I just don't want to have sex anymore. I don't think sex is worth the risk of getting anything else.