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Help me with my depression please?


I'm under serious depression, the reason is that i'm in a small town right now, and it sucks real bad. I came to this town from a huge city 2 years back. Last year was alright i didn't feel that depressed but this year is horrible i can't take it. I just wanna go back to my home city. But i can't since my dad's working in this small town. And i'm 14 studying in the 10th grade. I did consult a doctor about my depression but he was of no help. And to top all that off, i'm homeschooled which is even more depressing. I need serious help. I'm always bored to death and don't know what to do. Any help would seriously be appreciated. <3 thankyou so much.

You need to have a serious talk with one or both of your parents. Put your thoughts down in a list and be prepared for the talk. Tell them that you want to go back to the doctor and ask to speak with a therapist. Don't be turned off by the title. Most people go to a therapist at one time in their life. This person is an unbiased friend who will listen to you and understand how you are feeling. They will not tell your parents anything you say; that is, unless you want them to.
This person can be your ally in communicating to your parents. There is a reason you are feeling depressed. A legitimate reason. You left a huge town that had a lot of fun interesting things to do. You left your friends and all the familiar things in your life. The reason the first year was easier to tolerate is that it was new to you. Well, it's a small town so it didn't take long for you to explore all there was to see.
To make matters worse; you are home schooled. The reason I say worse is that you are not 'out there' where the other kids are. You are 'stuck' at home all day with the same old, same old things to see and do.
You need some activities to stimulate your brain. You need to go to museums, theaters, stores, etc. Do you have any friends that you can go to a zoo with, for example? Skating, skate boarding? Water sports? You need physical activity and lots of sunshine. Can you go hiking?
please contact me, I know you don't know me, but that doesn't mean I don't care.
I can send you some ideas and try to help you through this. You need a friend and an ally in this to just be there to listen.

make going back to the city a motivation for things to get better and for you to study hard, make the best of what you have in this moment and keep sight of your goals and get better from depression but talking to someone you trust, you can do it.

YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR DAD HOW YOU FEEL, and that doctor is a dick if he didnt help you. i dont no what you have out there. but till you can get help,try reading tv movies. and get some one to help you. god bless and good luck.betty.

Do you have any neighbor kids close u can hangout with?
It would be tuff moving to a small town from a bigger city.
And not knowing people.
If U need to talk I'm here.
Take Care

later on you will get used to it... just try to have some fun.. ok?

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