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I am confused as to what to do about my ex girlfiend? Depression may be a factor.? |
I am confused about my ex girlfriend. She ended our relationship 6 wks ago as "her feeling had changed". We were together for 9 mths. At the end of our relationship she admitted she was suffering from clinical depression. She has had it seriously in the past. She also suffers from Chronic Fatigue syndrome. I persuaded her to go to her Dr, he prescribed prozac & counselling. 1 wk later she said she wasn't depressed, didn't need counselling, and our relationship was the cause of her unhapiness. I gave her some space. She contacted me. We met up for a drink last week. Everything went well, we laughed a lot and had a nice time and said we would see each other again soon. We didn't talk about depression or us. I rang her a few days later to see how she was & she was totally dismissive of me. I suggested we catch up again soon & she said she didn't have time. I didn't react to this and the conversation ended I do want see if we try to make things work but know it is complicated?? Tell her you still have feelings for her and then let her come to you. If you didn't talk about your relationship last time you met up, she might be confused. Keep your chin up. If she loves you and wants to be with you, she'll contact you. Depression is not as straight forward as some people might think, it's not always a case of cheer yourself up, etc. It's very deep within. Essential for you is really try not to take it personally. Good luck. Sounds like the happy pills kicking in. Maybe she likes being the centre of attention and you're doing everything she wants? You need to think hard about whether you still want her in your life. My advice to you mate is move on She does not know her own mind she is swinging from one thing to another........ Just stay away, if you were meant to be together you will even if its a year down the line when she has sorted her own head out........... good luck xxx Let her go....Gather your self respect and move on...you do not need to be her dog boy. This will cause you nothing but heartache and pain if you continue this way. This will be difficult for you, I understand, but it will be the best thing. if she has been depressed in the past then she obviously had problems before she met you, although you may have played a part if you argued etc. don't blame yourself. if she hasnt had proper couselling for a long time then she will not be cured. to be quite honest 9 months isnt realy serious to me and if shes going to mess you around then just leave it and move on. i'm sure i wouldn't want to hang around for someone who doesn't know what they want. i'm sure you will meet mrs right but i would just let it go. Move on, this will just keep dragging on and on, go and find someone else If I were you I would leave her for a while. It sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants at the moment. I did the same thing to my ex but he kept calling me, trying to get back together etc and it just strung the whole thing out for ages. I would get on with your life and don't count on getting back with her. Give yourself a clean break and find another girl. Good luck. |
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