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I want my ex back but don't want to scare her off? Depression may have been a factor in our break up.? |
My ex ended our relationship 3 mths ago. At the time things ended she was suffering from depression. She has had it bad in the past, long before our relationship. Our relationship was always good, and also serious, she was telling me she loved me 4 wks before ending things and we talked of moving in together. At the time things ended her dr said she was depressed and prescribed prozac (which she started taking) and counselling (which she refused). She said she didn't think she was depressed but just unhappy with the relationship as her feelings had changed over a short period. She also said she felt she held me back. I never agreed with this! I couldn't persuade her to changer her mind. I saw her 5 wks after the break up. She seemed better, but spaced out, and had clearly been taking the prozac. We had a chat about us and she said us not being together was for the best. We are meeting up soon. I would like to try and see if we can work but don't want to push too much! Tips?? Just because she ended it doesn't mean she doesn't care about you or a relaionship with you. It may mean the exact opposit. thats exactly what i was going to say - dont say anything unless she does, just be a friend, say you are there for her whenever she needs you. this should make her feel a bit protected. i was on Prozac, it spaced me out, it helped, but you can get addicted. hopefully she aint taking more than she is meant to. Give her time. If she is worth it then wait, never be pushy, just let her know you are there for her. She probably not wanting you to have the "hassle" of her right now, but when she does get better things will sort themselves out. I can only wish both you and her all the best and hope things work out. Wait until she is off the Prozac before you try to get her back. Sounds like a lot of small talk on your next meeting, if you can't talk about your relationship or her depression. Hope the weather is changeable. If she doesn't have her depression under control, then your relationship is starting out with at least one strike against it. I would be very leery of getting too deeply involved. You may want to keep things light for a while, just be sure you have enough time to know each other's highs and lows. A depressed person= a person who is hungry for love and care. Full fill her hunger. She will never leave you, she cannot. |
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