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I had a 11 year old pomerian dog who died but 4 years of passed i am not able to come out of depression? |
i tried my level best to save my dog took him to the vet and everything but i couldnt save her. Now i feel very depressed and guilty. Sometimes i feel that it was my fault that she died . that i forcibly made her drink water by a syringe or i made her sleep in the balcony etc etc . How will i come out of it . i know i am not guilty but......... what should i do I am so sorry. I love my little dog with all my heart (she is 17) and I completely understand. Like you, I feel so bad when I have to do things that are meant to try to help her but that I know she does not understand. I carry that guilt too, even thought I know my intentions were only out of love for her. You must get a sense of perspective about this. If you keep the feelings of guilt alive you will not be honoring her memory because you will be erasing all of the countless happy memories you have. She is now in a safe and happy place surrounded by many other loving people and animals. She is at peace and wants you to be too. Her love for you was stronger than your guilt. Let her love reach out to you and heal you. It is her last gift to you. Don't ignore it. Receive her forgiveness and let her love replace your own sorrow. theres really no way to deal with it, just time...i had a dog for 13 years and she passed away and it took me forever to get over it, its just a dog but it was part of the family dig a grve for your dog Besides search out professional counseling - have you thought of getting yourself another pomerian dog? It might just be what you are depressed about is not losing the dog - its about losing the companionship a dog offered you - and the only way to replace such a relationship is with another dog. Good Luck!!! Don't beat yourself up over it. You could have easily backed up and ran over your dog and killed it. Some have done this. It is a terrible thing to have to live with. I'm sure you are not even guilty of doing anything wrong. Your baby probably would have died no matter what. You took her to the vet. Apparently there was nothing that could be done. Have you got yourself another dog? My daughters childhood dog died after 17 years and she said she never wanted another dog. Didn't seem right. She was determined never to love another dog. Well, I ended up getting one for me and finally she fell in love with her and now she has two girls. Life is for the living. Get yourself another friend. Your dog who died would want you to have someone to love. She would want you to be happy and taken care of. Animals only know love. One of my friend, who has recently lost his father and mother with in a time gap of just three month. He is survived by his only one sister, atleast for the sake of her future he is in a position to earn / strive hard in this world. he doesnt have time to think about what has happened with his fate. because in his profession, he has to work from morning 0700 AM to evening 1000 PM. if your depression is more than what he has, then tell me. Otherwise, sit in a burial ground for about a night and see how many are being buried and creminated. then you will realise what you have, what you dont. O.K. also, i think you dont have any portfolio, ambition, responsibility, liability. else you might not fell in depression for the sake of a death of a dog, which died after due life time. regards. aww what a sad story... you were only acting out of love in forcing her to drink water, as for sleeping in the balcony... it wasnt too cold was it? brrrr but you obviously love your dog, and that is all that matters. dogs can sense when their owners love them, the same way people can feel love. Im sure she loved you the same for loving her that way and was happy to be yours those 11 years (or however long you had her). If you still look back and feel depressed about her now, you must love her extremely much to miss her that much still, and any dog would give anything for that kind of love from their owners, I think she is a very lucky dog who lived a long happy life |
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