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I suffer from depression...?



I just got married and I am so unhappy. My husband constantly tells me what to do. Whether it be about the house, the car, my job, and even my dog that I had before we got married. Plus I am dealing with a medical issue as well. Things are really getting me down and I can't take medication for this...is there anything else I can do to help me out before I end up hurting myself?

Talk to your husband , tell him that you were able to function alright before you were married and his constantly treating you like a child is making you depressed. He sound demeaning and controling.
stop listening to your husband and listen to your self! put your self first! and do things you enjoy gain control of your life
if hes so controling divorce him and live life easy answer why put up with something thats making you unhappy
Start listening to your husband. Meet his expectations and there will be no issues for him to worry about. Would you so willy-nilly ignore direction from your boss at work? Complain openly in a public forum that you wish not to be told what to do by the person who employs you?

This cuts both ways - if your spouse (M or F) is the "take charge" type of person then follow along to get along. You knew (or should have known) who this person was prior to marriage - don't complain after the fact.
i dont know but your husband sounds like a butt hole. tell him to shut up. When i played basketball in highschool and someone said something that the cosach didn't like he said "i'm f***ing this cat your just holding the tail" tell him that his demeanor is hurting your mental health. He might feel alot more pressure also because you just got married talk to hi m to make sure he is okay and work it out together.
why can't you take mediction?

sounds to me like a bad case of requesting unrequired reassurance.

i would suggest the obvious solution which is getting divorced and finding someone who makes you feel happy, but since you are asking this question i guess you are not willing to do that.

in that case you should find a passtime like photography or horseback-riding or tv. even if it feels like it's not a passtime and you actually don't even have time for it. you should make time for yourself and think of your problems in terms of what you can do about them, not what you can't. and give yourself a pat in the back for everything you get done. you'll feel better in no time.

and report jgcii for being such an imbecile. it'll be fun!
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