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Is it normal to not want sex when hearing that your hubby has diabetes? |
I knew he had developed it,as his mom and grandpa had it. Now that he has ED, I don't want it with him ( not that I would cheat,but ...?) and he knows why. It has really made our marriage worse. he sleeps on the couch,and oral and fingers do OK, for awhile, but a woman wants the real thing! He and i cant afford viagra. But my question is , is it normal for this to happen?? I am not to say i don't have a sex drive, cuz I do... but still...? Yes, it is normal and not necessarily an easy thing to deal with for either one of you. It would be normal for him to dream of sex too even if he can no longer perform. His mental "sex" level is probably still there. Self sex is a solution for any physical urges. It will not kill the longing for phyiscal sex with a man. My father was diabetic and had similar problems my mother worked very hard to arouse him and it worked but only now and again. Best wishes, If you cheat you would regret it almost right away. Not something he can change. 60% of women orgasm from or Orel other Manuel stimulation so you should be okay Loveline i would say you are an incredibly shallow woman. He's your husband...your intimate time with him should be about the two of you...and sexual acts are a way to express intimacy... if you want pure animal sex...don't saddle some man with your shallow self. your husband deserves better than that. how can you put this pressure on him when he's just learned that he has diabetes? you are a cruel cruel woman. My brother found out he had diabetes in the 70's and the doctor said that his children would have a 99% chance of not getting diabetes. Could your doctor give you some "sample" packs of viagra? Let him know the situation, he may have some in the back room. This situation must be so hard for both of you. Even if there isn't anything happening, it may do you both some good to be back in each others' arms ( in the same bed). Maybe being as close as possible, trying to have as much fun as you can together, might be able to liven things up? God bless you, I truly do wish you the best! I think the real question here is why do you not want to have intercourse with your husband? Does your husband still desire you? Diabetes is not contagious, you know. Your rejecting him could be part of the cause of the ED. Perhaps your family doctor can give samples of Viagra. However, there are also penile extensions or male strap-ons that could be used. Those can be found at adult book/toy stores or at adult on-line toy sites. In addition, I feel that a marriage counselor is needed for both of you ASAP. There are some real issues here that will not be solved on Yahoo Answers and if not solved could result in a failed marriage. |
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