FAT / EATING DISORDER? Please Help!?

im 13 and 5'2'' and a girl and i weight 100pnds. am i fat? honestly? i diet alot, but then i do a whole bunch of emotional eating too... its hard because i look and feel fat but my friends say im thin but a guy, who i thought liked me but then didnt, said im fat. Does this sound like an eating disorder? my best friend thinks im anorexic, but she isnt always accurate on these things. and is my hair loss and cramps (even when im not on my period) related to this? also, im craving spinich, which i like but not nearly enough that i should crave it like this... PLEASE HELP ME!!!
ps. i know ive asked this several times befor, but i need a good answer and im not getting one.
pps. i want to be 85 pound by june, is this a reasonable goal for this time frame? dont care if you think im a moron for dieting, i just want to know if its accurate.
ppps. does throughing up really work and how do you do it right cause im having trouble doing it right?

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You most definitely have a serious eating disorder. Talk to a councilor at school or parents.....Anyone who can get you help. Don't lose any weight, your actually underweight, if you lose any more then your health will plummet. Your losing hair because your not getting enough nutrition, and the cramps are most likely unhealthy signs too.

You're actually at the right weight for your height...hair loss and cramps are caused by not eating often enough...

If you don't eat enough (around 1,200 calories daily) your body goes into starvation mode and stores fat...instead of burning it off (even when you exercise)

Throwing up is not healthy for you. The stomach acid in puke will eat away the lining in your esophagus and also your tooth enamel...

The best way to stay thin is to eat a balanced meal and stay in shape by getting adequate exercise.

No you are not fat. Try not to diet because you are still growing, eat healthy instead. Thats good that you are eating, add fruits and veggies they are good for you. The guy that called you fat is an ***, hes nobody to tell you those things, don't listen to him. He's dumb. Be happy with your body.

Seek help. If you want to be 85 lbs. then girl you are in trouble. Please be happy with what yoou have. I did my diets too when I was young and it hurt me in many different ways. All I know is that I wish I still had my curves from before.

Okay, you're not fat, you're bmi is 18.3 anything under 18.5 is underweight.

Yes your friend is right you do sound anorexic and yes this is what the cramps and hair loss are related to.

No, 85 pounds by June seriously puts your life in danger and is not safe.

Stop making yourself throw up you're not helping yourself, you're ruining your throat and stomach lining and bringing a lot of dangerous acid into your mouth that shouldn't normally be there.

Go to your doctor, explain to them what you've said to us and get some help.

You might be referred to a counsellor for help or you might just be given a monitored diet. The worse you get the worse the doctors get, it's easier to just listen to them and not have to deal with the stress.

If you're feeling depressed which is normally one of the factors behind an eating disorder, your doctor might prescribe some anti-depressants for you which will "cheer you up" as such and will help with some of these feelings.

If your weight gets dangerous and theres a chance of you dying you will be taken into hospital for monitoring and help so they can help you understand the disorder and help you get back on track.

I used to have anorexia, I have the eating sorted now but I still struggle with anorexic thoughts from time to time so if you need some help and advice on how to get over the fear of food factor I'm happy to help, just email me.

Oh, My you defiantly have an eating disorder. But you shouldn't take that personally. You are very much under-weight and you should eat more. The proper weight for a small woman who is 5'4'' is 114-127 pounds. Check it out for yourself on the link below. Getting cramps, hair loss and headaches can be a problem so just eat. Also the guy who called you fat just said that because he wanted to show that he didn't like you in front of his friends when he might really like you still. Spinach cravings really don't have to with the eating disorder.
No. the 85 pound goal is very unreasonable. you shouldn't diet anymore.
No again. Throwing up doesn't work because you are still the same weight in the end.

i think you do have a disorder. i don't think i'd call it anorexic though. anorexia is also a mental disorder as well as an eating disorder. if you're not purposely starving yourself to get skinnier, then you're not anorexic. you say you diet a lot, do you just eat healthy or do you starve yourself? that's really the question here. you are already really light for your height, if not underweight. do NOT strive for 85, that's just so unhealthy. you have such drastic goals, which i think is probably a sign of a disorder. and so is the fact that you're skinny and think you're fat. that SCREAMS disorder. girl, let me just tell you right now, you're NOT fat at all. and i know people tell you that all the time, like you're best friend, and i know me saying it won't help you, but you said you wanted a good answer. this is my honest answer, i think you need help. i won't lecture you, but please try to stick to a healthy lifestyle. that guy who called you fat is obviously an asshole. 5'2 and 100 lbs is very thin. just eat healthy, don't go for anything too drastic because it can really mess up your life.

the guy who said that is a jacka-ss. you are not fat at all. I think you would be on the thinner side.

i think you are absolutely fine. you are obviously quite skinny but i think thats fine. your bmi is 18.3 and anything under 18.5 is underweight. i am 14, 5'5" and i weigh 116 lb which makes my bmi 19.3. i want to lose a bit of weight as well; my target weight is 107 lb. i really wouldnt recommend throwing up though. its really bad for you and can rot your teeth! and who wants to smell of sick??! ew. 85lb for a target weight would make you really underweight and i dont think it would look nice tbh. just carry on they way you are. as for the spinach thing i don't have a clue! just eat it lol:P its good for youu. good luck XXXX (dont listen to the guy who said your'e fat; you're clearly not at all)