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Why do they bully me for my eating disorder????


i dont understand. they dont understand. they think it was my choice and its just that easy to get better.
why do they do that?!?!

Not many people can empathize with what they have never experienced. I used to cut, but the majority of people could never and will never understand, I don't know why.

Many people come to conclusions before they understand or have received proper information about the subject... I have never had an eating disorder, but I have sympathy for what you are going through, I have read up about it, and it is actually a mental illness, it is not a choice, but most people don't realise that as most celebrities are getting a load of slack for not eating, but that's probably because they are depressed and stressed, as eating disorders can be brought on by this.

Good luck, and try to get past the bullies. Maybe try to explain to them that it is not a choice and if you could change things, you would. Try to tell them that you are trying, but it is hard. Are you getting help from your parents etc.? If not, you definitely should.

If its one thing I've learnt over the years of my existance, it is to love myself for who I am and sod what other people think. Never let anyone else decide who you should be.

You know how to live healthy and it is your choice to make, society makes it too easy to call situation a 'dis-ease'.

If you value yourself as you should, you'll aim and work to become who you want to be and if others don't like that attitude and state of mind then that's tough. You become what you think about. Don't tell yourself you won't bother because of what others say.

Simply do not care and take the necessary steps regardless of other people to achieve what you want to better yourself.

Bullying I have found occurs because someone wants to be noticed at the expense of another and they feel inadequacy in themselves and disguise it by putting down others.

People generally bully because they are feeling threatened or scared in your case they feel fear that they cant stop your eating disorder for you, take a deep breath and calmly say bullying wont change me I need help not stress and it should stop at least they should pause to think if you are correct, you may have to do this a few times to get your point across and accept through fear they need to express themselves also they just need a more appropriate way to do so, best wishes!

I will put this simply, they are morons. They are horrible and you absolutely should not let them hurt you. Nice decent people do not abuse others, only classless trash do that. Anyone with an ounce of maturity would only wish for you to get better, move on from your disorder and be happy. Sincerely, DO NOT LET IT GET YOU DOWN. You can do that by remembering that you are above that kind of nonsense, and try to stay away from such people.

people don't understand why anyone would intentionally do that to themselves. or cutting or suicide unless they actually experience it. don't listen to what anyone else says, if they bully you its because they don't understand
do NOT let it get to you. but you do need to find some help for this. it isnt healthy.
but bear in mind some people say these things because they are worried or they care about you

they don't get it. i had a sister with an eating disorder and people picked on her because they didn't know why she did it. they are not informed enough to make a good judgement. they think its your choice but its not, it's your disease
good luck

people are mean i am sorry. as people get older they get more mature. if i were your mom i would tell their parents or tell them off myself.
I sometimes fall into eating disorders casue i don't feel loved or i think people don't accept my body as it is.

Because you are a victim of your own decisions and feelings and the strong frequently bully the weak to feel better about themselves.

Because people are cruel and have no idea what they are doing. Im sorry to hear about the bullying, i hope everything gets better x x

well i think people are scared for you, you are harming yourself, i bet your stick skinny!! you dont need to do that kind of thing to yourself enjoy life and eat food!!

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