Guys, If your woman had an eating disorder? please answer?

Guys: If your woman had an eating disorder would you stick by her through her struggle or would you drop her becuase "it's too much stress"?

Also, would you rather be with someone who is obese or really skinny like anorexic?

Please answer honestly. Anything is acceptable as long as your SERIOUS.


Thanks to whoever answers.

Please Answer honestly.

anerexically skinny.
stick with her
theres ways to bring her out of it.
just be patient

I'm not a guy, obviously, but I figure you could use a girl's opinion too. If you care about her, stay with her; if you don't then don't stay with her. It's that simple. The eating disorder doesn't define who she is, so you shouldn't make a decision based solely on that. If you do leave her, make sure you're nice about it and that she knows that it isn't because you think she's fat. If she's anorexic, she has self esteem issues and is constantly thinking that other people think she's fat. The last thing you wanna do is make things worse.

I'm not a guy, but I can tell you that she would want you by her side.

Don't judge her on her eating disorder before you even ask yourself if you really love this person, and don't stay with her just to "help her through her struggle" and seem like a nice person.

If you really do love her, it shouldn't matter how other people like their women... but you should stay with her and try to help her through it.

If you do not really have feelings for her and you think this is too much stress on you then don't waste her time making her believe that you want to be with her. Don't "drop her" but tell her in a nice way you'd rather not be with her....

I hope this helped...

Just because she is obese or skinny doesn't change the person she is. It may have an effect on her, but it doesn't change who is is.

I may not like what she has done to herself, but it is her life, her choice and her business; if / when she is ready to change, all I can do is support her.

I it is a loving relationship, obviously whatever disorders, disease etc... there may develop between two people are part of the relationship itself. So the real question lies there. Nobody with some common sense would 'choose' an eating disorder as companion, would he?

id stick with her if i really liked her
id try to help her get through her hard times.....
but if she shows shes already given up and wont commit to what is believed to have the potential to save her life......
id just drop her and get another girl
but its the inside that counts =]

Depends. It would be a lot of stress because often people with eating disorders are very unstable, and they're obsessive also. A lot of times they don't even care for relationships anymore what's it gets too deep into it.

Even if the guy can't be with her intimately anymore, just being a good person would be to stick around and get her help. They can't do it alone.

divert her intention as long as possible! engage her in someother work...... reduce her time to eat! play...jump...enjoy!

do not drop her, rather try her to get rid of the Habit .

feed her burgers!