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I'm 13/f I might have an eating disorder!? |
Please help... everytime the thought of food makes me almost sick ... so I don't eat. Usually all I eat all day is half a gronola bar, and sometimes I might not even eat anything! Not because I want to be skinny, but food just doesn't sound good! Even if it is my favorite foods! Hey gymnast, You clearly have an eating disorder and that is never a good thing...it may the most difficult thing you have ever had to do but you need to talk to an adult you trust and tell them about your feelings towards food. I am much much older than you but went through a similar thing when I was your age. I lost about 50 pounds and got down to 70 pounds (at 5'6")....very very bad, not as much then but today it causes me pain on a daily basis and I will not live too much longer because of what I did then. I used to get sick just watching other people eat and food made me sick, just the smell or the look of it. at 13 you are still developing and if you don't correct this behavior soon you will be in my shoes later in life I promise you. I was never "caught", I jsut kept wearing baggier clothes and could melt into the background w/o being noticed. Years later, through the help of a shrink, I came to understand that I didn't think I deserved food, ring a bell?.... You must change this now, today, if you don't you won't ever be able to have children and if you are lucky enough to have them you won't get to see them grow up. I would do anything to have a chance to do it over differently...please get help. I know at 13 you don't think you what you do now can blow the rest of your life but believe me it can...Your body will slowly but surely die if you don't feed it. I have 2 kids that I will not see grow up, have caused my family unthinkable pain and have just made a big fat mess of my life and the lives of all those who love me....I am trusting that the fact that you would take the time to write this that you do want help. The heck w/ gymnastics etc....talk to any trusted adult and get help. Don't end up like me, I have been told I will be dead within a year, stop now and think if that is how you want to end up. I didn't want to be skinny either, food just made me sick. Find yourself some help...it doesn't sound like your problem is really food, it is a problem with a loss of the will to survive, it's a real life situation and it requires help. You can do this, please, make my day and get help. My guess is there are problems at home, put it on someone else, they will be more than willing to help you. You were put here on this earth for a reason, don't give up before you find out what it is....good luck...make today the day you ask for help...plus granola bars are nasty!!!!!lol....now go do the right thing...please.... Source(s): my ending life u re so lucky If you are over 80 - 90 pounds you are fat and need to stop eating, if you are lighter than that you are just perfect and all the boys will fancy you. two types of eating disorders ares there; anorexia and bulemia nervosa. If you appreciate your self as skinny, you do't have the first, and if you are not eating much you don't have the second. Might be u are in depressed mood or need to exercise. How long has this been going on? Everybody goes through phases of not wanting to eat when they are not feeling well or due to stress. However if this has been going on for days or weeks you need to do something. Your body needs food to fuel you, without it you WILL damage your body. You need to examine the root of this. You might even need to talk to someone close to you about getting help. Honey, have you talked this over with your parents? I think it is time to discuss this with your doctor. Sounds like you might be anorexic. That is a eating disorder. No one on here can really help you. You've recognized that you might have a problem. Now take the next step and talk with your parents. Good luck, and my thoughts are with you. |
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