I ment genital herpes, and "why" is: after I told guys I was dating, they reject me?

So whats the diference to those who accept to take the risk to those who not accept.
I am making my possible, valtrex and condom.I will not tell anyone else. I am tired to be treated as I have HIV.

Because there is a lot of people around carryng it and not even know. So, people will be contaminated anyways..thats why I doesn't metter for me anymore, I know that will have a lot of people angry, but what am I gonna do?

OK I am a nurse who deals with clients with HIV.
Genital herpes spreads exactly the same way as HIV. If you don't protect others you are unkind. You must also protect yourself because you are open to other sexually transmitted diseases and less resistant because you have HSV (Herpes Simplex Virus).
Now if someone is not willing to accept you if you tell them when it comes time to have sex that person has DONE YOU A FAVOR by showing you their heart and that they would not love you in sickness and in health! Unsafe sex is never a good idea for you or anyone else. The chance of HIV is pretty high. 1 out of 4 people that have it don't even know it!

Valtex only REDUCES your chance of spreading it,go here:http://www.valtrex.com/
Just because some people are not safe does not mean that you should compromise your morals.If you decide to purposefully not inform your partners,be prepared to be sued in civil court. Report It

AMEN! to Anama Report It

its amazing how some people confuse hiv, hpv and hsv. Report It

i'm sorry you feel that way but people have a right to know if they could possibly get herpes from u. it would be unfair if they didnt know and could put them in your same situation because of you. besides i heard of some lady on the radio trying to sue her husband for not telling her about his STD before she got it.

you need to go here:
http://www.herpesdating.com/
http://www.datingwithherpes.org/social_g...

just search herpes dating

You can also go to a local support group and meet people who are in the same situation that you are in. At the least you can get some real life "how to date and tell about it "advice...and who knows? you might even meet someone!
I am glad you are being careful and using preventative measures and informing future partners. I wish you the best, you sound like a really responsible person! Please continue to do so. You should not toss the baby out with the bathwater! Those people were jerks and you are better off without them. It is immoral to purposely not inform people, and there is a real risk of ending up in civil court in a law suit when you knowingly place a person at risk.
Forget the jerks and continue to be honest and up front about it. Look at it this way, you get the 411 on who is wheat and who is chaff...

You are "that girl" who needs the herpes dating site...

I thought it was worthless & useless...but obviously it was made for YOU...

You should not touch another human being without letting them know they are at a 2% risk of getting herpes - even if you have no symptoms.
It has been proven that condoms do not work against herpes - the contagious area on a woman is NOT the vaginal walls or excretions...so it give NO PROTECTION!

If the guys your dating are upset with you when you tell them....it's probably because they already had sexual contact with you...THEN you told them

sorry but until they find a cure, the stigma's put on herpes aren't going anywhere so guys are going to be scared of it with or without treatment.

Like I said before to your other question, I don't see a need to tell. Most people don't, and nor do they tell you they have oral herpes before they give you oral sex.

It is your business. The problem as far as I am concerned is not with you, but with people who are not prepared to accept that when they have sex with someone they take a risk. On what naive planet are they on if they expect everyone to be fully honest with them? Their sexual health is their responsibility. If they ask you about your sexual history, then fine. Most don't.

An ex boyfriend of mine told me after I had been seeing him - and having sex with him - for a few months that he had caught warts a couple of years previously. I suppose lots of you would think it was his 'responsibility' to tell me. I don't and nor was I angry with him for not telling me. It was his private matter. I put myself out there and at risk just by having sex and that was my problem not his. HIV I can understand, but it isn't like herpes is life threatening, it is just a bit of a nuisance at times, like codl sores are.

I HAVE told the men I have slept with since I caught it, because I was interested as to how they would react. None were bothered. I live in northern england and I think a lot of people are less germophobic here - they just don't care particularly. The first thing anybody I have confided in as a friend has said is why bother to tell anybody, because they woudn't.

What you do is up to you, and don't let anyone on here make you feel bad by telling you otherwise.

most guys want nothing to do with herpes because of how contagious it can be. the ones that do reject are germaphobes and will treat u like a leper for having herpes. u don't want to be with them anyways. those guys want nothing to do with it because they are ignorant and don't know any better. herpes is very contagious and not to many people will be willing to accept it. not everybody is contaminated with herpes and some will want to stay that way and go running for the hills. it takes a lot for a guy to still want to be with u and accept u having herpes, so stay with him if u find him. i got herpes from my bf who didn't even know that he had them at the time but we are still together.

I agree with you, it sucks that you have to be forced into doing that, Im still questioning whether thats what I NEED to do. Otherwise I'll never have a normal life and will be depressed and lonely all my life, assuming herpes is never cured. It sucks to have to do this, but I wont suffer for the stupidity of others. I took a chance and didnt wear a condom, if they fail to do the same, then that was a mistake on their part, they deserve no less than I received. Easy solution, always wear a condom, otherwise I gotta do what I gotta do.