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I had an affair and have genital herpes?


I stopped seeing him because I'm sure I gave it too him. At first I didn't know but I recently met up with him and couldn't help myself and maybe part of it was because my husband gave it to me but I told him it was an allergical reaction now I feel bad. Should I send him a note or have someone call him pretending to be his ex-girlfriend? I was planning on letting him know without directly telling him because I don't want him to know it was me. I'm going to make him think he gave it to me. I just don't know which way is best?

You should have been practicing safe sex. You need to be an adult to tell him the truth and you need to do it right away before he spreads it. How would you like being in his position.

you pick the way to tell him, but you need to tell him.
he could unknowingly be giving it to others.

Told him what was an allergic reaction? Did he see a sore on you or did he have one?

tell him anyway u feel comfortable but don't let him think he gave it to you, he'll feel so bad. :(

honesty is the best policy. that was a nice gift you gave him.

you should crawl in a hole and die

You need to come clean can call him or tell him in person, but don't pretend to be his ex. You should be honest, mature and come right out with it. I'm sure that your husband would appreciate some respect with you being honest at least.
You never really know who gave you herpes because it's one of those viruses that can lie dormant for long periods of time even after you contracted it, but the normal time for herpes to develop is with in 2-30 days after contracting it. Who knows it could have been this guy you had the affair with, a past partner or it could have come from your husband. Either one could be a carrier, these people show little to no signs of out breaks but they have the herpes virus in their bodies. You need to tell your husband so he can be tested, maybe that will rule him out or include him in the list of suspects.
I have oral and genital herpes and I don't cheat and neither does he.

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