I have genital herpes. I have slept with a guy already...?

but we wraped it up. But i have not told him that i have it. We have been dating for i month now. & i really do care about him. We had sex when we were really drunk. but i want to know how i can tell him that i have it without him getting mad or leaving me. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!!???

You have a RESPONSIBILITY to Tell Him!! What if it was HIV... would You be asking this same question?

wow
that sucks for him
hopefully he's not infected
you have to tell him, how he reacts nobody really knows... if he really loves you, he will understand...
This is how it spreads. Knock it off! What if you slept with someone with AIDS. Would you still want to be with them after the fact?
if u are that scared u can always ask the health department to contact him and more than likely they will
You have the duty to tell him. Do it and let the chips fall where they may.
if you know this relationship is going further - you have to tell him now - waiting will make it worse - if he really cares about you, he will understand and be conscious of wearing a condom (if he doesn't have it already) - - oh, not from you but someone else.
good luck