Can a man with genital herpes get a woman pregnant without giving her herpes?

Chances are she will get it,even if you are not having an outbreak. Herpes has Viral Shedding...which means you still shed some of the virus 90% of the time. It is best for her to have a C section to be sure the babay wont get it

the only way you can give a female herpes as if the herpes are showing but you can get her pregnant if she want you to
The only totally "safe" way is assisted reproduction , because a HSV infected person eliminates viral particles even without cutaneous lesions
Yes.

And you can also give her herpes even when the sores are not showing.
Possible but unlikely, it is an unwarranted fear that if you are not showing you can still pass. Furthur more herpes are not genetic, nor should it adversly affect child birth. But whatever you do, I hope she knows!
KNow several girls with the gift that keeps on giving.