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Husband cheated on me 3 years ago.i forgave him.irecently diagnosed with genital herpes.should i stay? |
i totally forget about the past, but having genital herpes re-open the doubts and trust issues from the past. it has been three years since he cheated on me, and he swears me he never cheated on me again.should i believe him? he has supported me all throughout, helps me to go to school and advises me to finish it. everything is great with him except for that cheating part and of course about this forever virus that will be with us. i desperately need good advises and serious ones please. i am so vulnerable as u can see. thanks I was told by my Doctor that this virus stays dormant in your system for years before you get symptoms. Time will heal all I went through the same thing and things are great now. of course you will be able to see the signs of cheating especially since it has happened before. Don't leave him because of the virus that wouldn't be wise but if he does cheat again then I would. I hope it works out for you. break outs over the years get less and less and they can prescribe medication. I know it wont help with the husband but it will help with the Herpes Source(s): personal too rich for my blood No you shouldn't stay just because of the virus . You should stay because you forgave him and want to commit yourself to each other . I want you too think long and hard if there is any doubts in your mind he did it again when you just sprung up with herpes ... First time outbreaks can go unnoticed , yet most people have there first outbreak with in the first 3-20 days of getting it . Did you both happen to have your FIRST outbreak at the same time ? This could indicate unfaithfulness once again, and I would be suspicions too cant blame you for that . If you don't think that is the case and it was from before when he cheated I don't see how you could ask such a thing you forgave him for his actions and decided to continue to mend your marriage in sickness and health my dear , the thought of that could have crossed your mind back then when you found out he cheated . Also I would like to point out that the herpes virus can hibernate and you could have given it to him when you first met .. and he had a unnoticed first outbreak and then you both didn't have another until you just now got one outbreak .. THEY SAY Thats another possibility. *stella* HERPES DOES NOT MAKE YOU INFERTILE !!! my mother had herpes years before I was even a twinkle in her eye . She had four children . Oh and none of us were born with herpes . Three of us were born vagainal the last C section. One can get neital herpes with out getting sexually involved. So it does not means that he is still cheating. So go with him to see a doctor. If you have forgiven him you have to forgive all the crap that went with it. After 33 years my husband had a fling, we were separated for over a year. We are back together and I know what you mean. But forgive & forget is just that. It is a terrible thing you both will have to live with, either together or apart. But you must decide and not let it eat you up inside. Confront him and talk it out with him. Have him go to see the doctor with you, a little guilt is good for the soul. Marriage is for life and so is Herpes He had his fun and is now paying the ultimate price. What right has to to pass this awful disease onto you for life. Get yourself tested, then leave him. See who wants him now! Herpes also makes you infertile You have a lot to think about |
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