How do I know if I have herpes/genital warts w/o going to the doctor?

i have bumps all down there and i dont kno how they got there my partner n i are safe everytime and were both clean. It was itching before the bumps showed up. I dont know what to do or how to tell if it is or isnt w/o going to a doctor.

You're not going to know for sure until you go to the doctor. Many STD's can lay dormant for a long time. It may be that you've just developed an allergy to latex or spermicide.

Do you shave down there? cause one time I shaved and got little shaving bumps.. yep. lol

look in the internet for genital warts get a pi of it and compare it to your bumps
Sometimes it' easy to tell, they may vary in size and be bumpy or sometimes flat; but sometimes you will need to have special test to detect them. I'm not sure if it would itch before appearing, but they are really uncomfortable!!!! you may have them on your sex organs or around your anus If you don't have too many, without treatment more will appear so make sure you get treatment before it gets worst.
You need to go to the doctor and get them cultured. There are many problems that show as bumps on and around the genitals. Most are contagious. Some can be cured, some cannot. Condoms do not prevent STD's, they only offer partial protection. Any skin to skin contact puts you at risk. The only sure way to know what you have is to go to a doctor. They see this sort of thing day in and day out. I used to work womens health clinic and learned all about this sort of thing.
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