A family man with gonorrhea STD?

tell to your wife or not
reasons
possible circumstances why not telling or telling your problem to your wife.

your screwed if you tell her she might leave you if you don,t shes going get sick because you didn,t tell her then she,ll leave you for sure, you better get to talking fast

WTF?

Um... tell her!!!!

You have to tell her. She may have it as well. One must face the music.

2 wrongs don't make a right,1 you cheated ...that is bad enough,for her to get much worse than the big G later, like the big C from it would be much worse.

Best to tell her
you cant live in Lie's with your spouse not the best idea =-O im sorry
may be like the right thing to not tell but sooner or later she's gonna find out trust me.
You two may have problems at first but it will end next thing you know
You can cure Gonorrhea but they can send the bill to your mail and your wife may find out Eghhhh not best thing =(

of course you have to tell her so she can get tested and treated, if necessary.

I'm not going to judge you on what you did, but man up and do the right thing by your wife.

If you had sex with your wife prior to finding out you had an STD you owe it to her to tell her you have gonorrhea. Otherwise how are you gonna explain why you don't want to have sex with her and why She has Gonorrhea?

It's time you put your big boy pants on, step up to the plate and tell your wife the truth. Ask for forgiveness and get some counseling.

Get rid of it as soon as possible. Telling the spouse will induce betrayal and untrust. How would you feel if she told you this?

Bottom line is she will eventually find out!
Now.... do you what to give her the bad news or let someone else tell her??
Personally, I would prefer my husband/lover tell me than some stranger.
I would be more pissed off if I have to find out from a 3rd party.

If you and your wife have had sexual contact in the time that you may have been contagious it is your duty to tell her, no question, she has to be checked.

I assume you contracted it while having an affair. Whether that is the case or not, it will be difficult convincing your wife otherwise.

If not, its really your call.
Option 1) Tell her. If you feel that your relationship can weather this storm, then this is the better way to go in the long run. Not telling her runs the risk of her finding out later, which is all the worse.
Option 2) Don't tell her. Avoid all sexual contact until you're cured. If she finds out later, you're screwed, but maybe she won't find out.

If you pass it to her, it can affect her fertility, and she will know you gave it to her anyway. You need to get treated, and if you are virtuous, tell your wife.

* Gonorrhea Treatment - Is there a Cure for Gonorrhea?
Early treatment is simple & effective, & involves a single dose of antibiotics. In addition, the treatment of chlamydia is also advocated. (It is common to have these two STD infections together 鈥?50% have both)
Treatment of Gonorrhea:
* Cipro庐 XR 500 mg a single dose, or
* Levaquin庐 500 mg a single dose, or
* Tequin庐 400 mg a single dose;
Treatment of Chlamydia:
* Doxycycline 100 mg 2-3 times a day for 10-14 days
* Zithromax庐 (azithromycin) 1.0 gm a single dose
* Zithromax庐 Z-pak庐 (azithromycin) - 500mg on day 1, followed by 1 tab (250mg) once a day for 4 more days
To avoid re-infection, any sexual partners should be treated too.
It's important not to have unprotected vaginal, oral or anal sex until treatment is completed & the infection has cleared up
Once it has been successfully treated, it won't come back unless a new infection is picked up.
Tell your wife that she needs to be treated also for chlamydia and gonorrhea.

Of course, you tell your wife everything. .... In sickness or in health... isn't that how the vow goes?? The wife won't leave her husband just because of an STD? I don't know much about gonorrhea STD and lets suppose neither those this wife in question. Whatever it is, the husband and wife should work together to get more information about it and possible cures and in the process their love will become stronger, not weaker. I know STD is a sexually transmitted diease and maybe the husband would worry that the wife would wonder how he got it in the first place, but if he has been faithful, than he should not be ashamed. Besides, the wife might need to be checked also before it becomes worst. Maybe he got it from the wife... again, no jumping to conclusions. Couples in love should trust each other and look for a solution together.

She might have it already and is afraid of telling you.

Both of you should go to the gynecologist a.s.a.p.

You have No Choice but to tell her!! The sooner the better!

It is HIGHLY contagious. You both need to get on a course of antibiotics

Do you have any children??? Make sure you protect the mother of ur children before worrying about what may happen. HONESTY ALWAYS...

You likely gave it to her - so you have to tell her

One of you needs to stop cheating!
Is it really worth it to have to make up lies & excuses like this?

You know the old saying "If you play you must Pay! If you have been so inconsiderate to have intercourse with your wife, knowing you have gonorrhea, you owe it to her to tell her, why should she suffer with a disease because you can't control your sexual urges. Either way you are a loser because someone who loved his wife wouldn't have done this, so grow up and take the fallout like a man.