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Hpv and the problems it's caused.? |
long story short, i dated a guy, the only guy i've slept with on and off for the last 9 years. recently we were in an on period and having sex frequently. i found out 3 years ago that i have HPV, not the wart kind, and have had 3 surgeries so far to get it off my cervix. it is always growing rapidly. he gave this to me and knows i have it and that because it is very aggressive and condoms don't protect you, we cannot really go sleep with other people. yesterday i found out that a girl at his work which was "just a friend" was a lot more and they have been sleeping together recently. i told him i was going to tell her about the hpv and he freaked and begged me to let him tell her. so he told her that not only was he still with me sleeping with me every night but that he also gave her hpv most likely. i assumed that it would be over and even though i'm hurt at his cheating we could move on. now they are together again today talking it over again. they have only know each other for 2 months and i'm so surprised that after she found out about us and all his lies and the fact that he knew he had the virus and never told her, she'd be history. now, they are trying to work it out to be together and he told me we need space and distance since we've been going in the same circle for 9 years and he met someone else he really likes. then why was he still with me all the time and sleeping with me if he really likes her. he only told her about the hpv cause of my finding out and threating to tell her myself. i have this virus now and tons of problems in my life including possibility of not having children someday and he is out trying to do it to someone else all over again. what should i do? btw i am 27, he is 28 and this new girl is only 20. thank you.... That's a tough sexual lesson to learn. Leave his cheating butt behind and move forward...but be sure to tell anyone you date in the future, up front, about your hpv and how easily it's transmitted. You don't want the karma of passing it on to someone who doesn't know you have it. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff... You are confusing me with this .... If you are eating a apple and you see where you took a bite that there is half a worm, do you take anouther bite, look for better people I think that you should try to tell her straight out and let her know for her own good. She can get hurt just like you and that is not fair. If she does not want to believe that is all on her because you warned her. He is acting like he does not care and I understand that you are feeling left out and I am sorry that you have to go through all of this. But I think that what he did to you was wrong but I don't think that you should stop your life because of him. You are better than that let things go with the flow if she does not listen oh well. But you deserve better and there is someone out there for you. Good Luck. hey..... it sucks.... it is a very scary thing this hpv.....i never heard of it, then all of a sudden its all u hear about..... maybe he continued sleeping with u cause he like the sex with u, and maybe he was confused. but girl let me tell u move on.... don't go back with him after he betrayed u and gave u this virus...... because of him look at all the probs u r going thru....... this virus to me seems unexplainable.......even if u use condoms u can still get it, it is by skin contact, so how r people supposed to have sex and try to be safe if even when using a condom u still get it... life is not easy..... but u girl move on and take care of urself and ur health... in time u will find someone that appriecates u and loves u.... be true to ur self...... lots of luck |
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