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Should i tell my boyfriend i have hpv warts?


i was diagnosed with hpv warts back in february, i used condylox gel and they went away. well a few days ago, i had a mild outbreak of them, so mild i could barely see them, so i started using the gel again and they are starting to go away. anyway, i started to date my longtime friend back in april, and although i told him i have hpv i didnt tell him i have warts that he can possibly catch, because i thought it was very rare for guys to catch it. how likely is it he will catch it if im not having an outbreak? and should i tell him, and how should i tell him so he wont freak out? i dont want to lose him, he's the only guy who's ever really cared about me, but at the same time i dont want anything bad to happen to him either.

Just tell him "Hey, you remember that HPV thing I told you about? Well, I just realized I have an active infection right now."
If he knows anything about HPV, he'll know it's very contagious and knew the risks before jumping in bed with you, sweetie. Granted, you do have to have an active infection to pass HPV to your partner, but nearly 50% of active infections go unnoticed--they can be on the vaginal walls, which you can't really see. So skip the guilt, he knew you had HPV.

It's just as likely for a man to get HPV as a female. The consequences can be more serious for a female, though.

You do need to tell him. He probably has it, and should you break up or anything, you have a responsibility that you now share with him to the rest of the population. He needs to know, even though he already should.

You absolutely have to tell anyone that you have sex with about the warts. You should not have unprotected sex.
Not telling your sexual partner is a terrible thing. If you are concerned about losing him if you tell him just think about how quickly you will lose him if he gets the warts!
These insidious little viruses are extremely contagious and some people can transmit them without ever having an outbreak. You have now infected this boy and anyone else that he has sex with. Think about it and do the right thing. USE PROTECTION at all times. Don't spread this any further!

of course u should tell i would kill a person if they gave me something

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