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My husband left me. Is it because of my hysterectomy? |
I am 27, my hysterectomy was done in 01/07. My doc did a total complete abdominal. Ever since I have not felt like the same person at all. Before I was in pain alot that is why my husband and I both thought this would be good. But now that I have physically recovered just fine, my hormones are a mess! They can not get me right after giving me many diff. types of hormones. I don't talk to my husband, I haven't had sex with my husband, it's like I am not married. We have been together 10 years and he is the love of my life. He had been telling something had to change or he was going to leave. He thinks that I just don't care and that I use my hysterectomy for an excuse on all of it. Well he left me 3 days ago and my world has come to a total end! He won't talk to me or anything, no matter how much I tell him I love him and want him he will not come home. He says I should have said all that sooner. I really can not take life right now and I feel like it just needs to end. What do i do? You sound like you need to get your hormones squared away. Don't do anything rash...just go to your doctor. See if he will accompany you. You can both explain whats going on (his side will different, but your both seeing things differently right now), and maybe your doctor can help set his mind at ease that it will all be better. He must have his reasons, legit or not. Who knows dear, you may find that he's just being an *** and using this as an excuse. Source(s): Someone who wishes he knew then what he knows now! Its because your overweight, and self-centered. Only if he's an a-hole. He's a loser that can't see what a great person you can't be. Move on. He might come back crawling. Obviously he is a jerk!! I don't know what to tell you, I really don't. But don't you want a husband that wants to be there for you, and wants to take care of you when you are not feeling well. I m very sorry this has happened to you. Evidently he was at the end of his rope on dealing with the hormonal behavior, and had all he could (or was willing) to take. You can't change him. I would suggest that if you do want to get him back, that you really give some thoughts to how this situation has affected him. I know it's your medical condition, but that doesn't mean you're the only one affected. If you were denying him the comforts of a relationship (not just sex, but even conversation) that's huge. You don't seem to have wanted his attentions until he said "enough" and left. You may be hurt, but you need to appreciate that he was hurt by this whole thing too. Get counseling for yourself and stay focused on getting better. Good luck. P.S. The "better or worse" thing is all well and good, but it's not a license to withhold basic attention (conversation, sex, etc) from him and expect him to stay around forever. |
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