He dumped his ex because she has PCOS, I haven't old him I have the same infertility condition...?

We've been e-pals for a yr. Just recently we've turned into something more. He calls all of the time and we talk for hours. I'm American and he's on a student visa from India. We're both Christian, but he's non-practicing.

His ex girlfriend has PCOS. He told me he wanted to marry her, but he wants kids and he doesn't believe in divorce. They got back together because he said they could work through it, but she dumped him.

I didn't admit to having the same condition. I have a friend that also has it. She doesn't have but maybe one or two periods a yr and they last 4 months at a time. I have a period on average every 33 days. I'm not sure if I ovulate, but do track my cycles and was seeing an endocrinologist, but because I'm not seeking to get pregnant I wasn't on fertility drugs.

Should I admit that I might not be able to get pregnant on my own-- he wants 3 kids! Or should I keep my mouth shut and just "suddenly" discover any fertility issues when the time comes up?

If you dont know if you ovulate just because you have 33 days cycles...doesnt mean it doesnt happen mine can be up to 40 days...and look at me...PREGNANT...so definaly unless you know for sure dont worry about it...but if you do know that you dont ovulate...then tell him immediatly . You dont want this to end once it has been goin for so long. That will hurt you so much more. Also there are fertility treatments that almost guarantee pregnancy...so i would just talk to him about it

Tell him now. You know this is an issue for him; no matter how much you might hope he'll decide he wants you more than the possibility of kids with time, it will be an issue regardless of when you confess. But the longer you keep it from him, the less it becomes about fertility and the more it becomes a trust problem - and that's every bit as much a relationship-killer, if not more so.