Just a question to others who have lost or almost lost a baby or who suffer infertility...ONLY PLEASE?

Does it bother you when you hear about abortion? I am sick to my stomach. I just answered someone and didn't call her mean names or NETHING and I get thumbs down? It makes me sick! When the drs told us we were going to wake up from surgery and have no baby as they thought it was ectopic I hit rock bottom. I would have done ANYTHING IN THE WORLD to make everything okay. I had to wait 2 weeks to know anything as it was so early. And I was bleeding after the surgery. I was devestated and luckily for my husband and I everything worked out with some extra care and rest. I just dont understand how someone could willingly end such a wonderful thing. And yes I am very pro life as I come from a LONG line of catholics but its not about that right now. Its about babies in general. And honestly there are some people out there who are victims of incest or something along those lines and I can't even imagine what they must go through in deciding weather or not to terminate. So this is NOT about that type of situation. Its about a voice for an unborn child. Everyone worries about the mothers choices but nobody stops to think about that growing little baby. I dont know maybe I am hormonal. I just hate to see people use abortion as a tool for birth control. It took hubby and I a while to get pregnant as i have endo. I d k. I am just heart broken that this is legal. Like I am horrified......does anyone else feel the same way??


This is not a slam against people who had an abortion at all. Its just my feelings and looking for other people who r /were in a simmilar situation.

i just want to say I am not trying to pass judgement on people at all. It may have come off like that but I really am not trying to be mean and certain people are in certain situations that I dont know what I would do if i was in either. I am just sick of people using it as a form of B/C.

I agree with you all the way dear. ALL THE WAY. It makes me so furious at these women. I just don't know how they could possibly abort a child. Not just any child, but there own flesh and blood and say that it's just a parasite or it's just a bunch of cells. It just perplexes me how a mother could do that to their child.

Women get thrown into prison for murdering their child and dismembering their child, but these other women are not only being applauded, but being allowed to terminate and destroy their baby. It makes NO sense to me at all. I've always been against abortions, but after having my son and feeling him move within me, etc. . . . the frustration has only increased.

Hey hun I agree with 100%!!

As you know I have problem conceiving...and some people get pregnant easily and they end up killing the baby!!

:(Its very sad...but they have to answer to God for this cruel act!!

You take care hun!!!

Jo

xx

i completely agree 200 percent!

best of luck to you

hun i know exactly what u mean i have had a baby 18mnths ago but since then have had 4 misscsirages and an ectopic and lost a tube it makes me sickhow someone could kill there child and post msg about it on here if we comment against them were the ones getting the thumbs down how does that work xxhope u get ur baby

hey, i lost my son at 23weeks in jan. after a perfectly normal pregnancy. he just stopped moveing i went in to be monitored, after 20 mins they tryed to find a heart beat with a prob thingy. so i went for an emergancy scan got shouted at my a lady who had been waiting 40mins for hers. was told i was a *****. i then found out he had passed away it worked out it happen early hours of the previouse nite. i hubby walked out the room and was screaming at the lady who had, had a go at me. i then had to give birth to my son. but we ttc again decided just few weeks back got lucky first try im now 4weeks and so scared as well as excited.
abortion isnt a nice thing esp when u get women who are trying just want nothing more then a child, u get silly kids who fall pregnant 1st time by being careless.
but sometimes abortion is just for the right reasons for some people, for lots of different reasons, its not for us to pass judement on a deshion a women has to make, a deshion that is far from easy. i dont agree with abortion past 11weeks. a close friend to me had a termination she just couldnt support the child her partner had left her to didnt want to know. it was the hardest thing she had to do.
you get alot of teenage girls who are silly and use abortion as a form of contraception. that is wrong but there kids and i happen to blame there parents for not educating them to the world.

I know what you mean. My second pregnancy ended in a miscarriage at 20 weeks, my baby died inside me and I had to have it removed at, of all places, an abortion clinic (I was on state health care and that's where they preformed D&E's). Sitting in a waiting room with all these women who were carrying live babies that they wanted to kill, meanwhile I had a dead baby who I would have given anything to bring back. It has taken years to get over the pain, frustration and humiliation.

I agree with you 120%. i don't understand why people use abortion as the means of birth control.

im like you im Pro Life.

i would never have an abortion it is totally wrong for someone to do that to a baby that didn't want to come into this world and then has to suffer the consequences. thats not right at all.

we have still not concieved yet but hopefully soon.

i wish you the best of luck in your pergnancy.

I agree, I have known many women who have had abortions and they justify it all the way down to last thought of it.

I am going to get tons of thumbs down for this but its my personnel opinion on abortion...........its easier to "get rid of the baby" than to put the baby up for adoption! Think about it, with an abortion you just get the baby removed and its over. With adoption you carry a baby for 9 months give birth and then you have to give the baby to somebody else and think about this child you don't know every day of your life. You know what im saying? Neither are easy but in my opinion abortion is easier to deal with long term.

My friend had two abortions in the 15 month journey I took to conceive my little Krista. It hurt me so bad that she would even bring it up, but I didn't let it ruin me.

Despite all of this I am still pro-choice (not pro-abortion) and choose to leave it up to the women and hope she makes the right choice!!!!

*Only God can judge

First off I want to say I am sorry for you and your husbands loss.
I understand what you are saying, I dont agree with abortion being used as a form of bc either. My husband and I have been ttc our first with no luck I like you would do anything to a have a healthy baby. The doctor thinks its because I am not ovulating and I am only twenty three. So we start clomid next month.
But good luck to you and your husband
Baby dust!