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I suffer from Lupus and having an episode but I cooked dinner because I have children. I left everything in? |
trays and on the kitchen counter. This is food off the grill with all the side trimmings. My daughter and her husband came over fixed their plate and ate. The children came in later and fixed their plate and cleaned the kitchen. I sat on the couch relaxing. My ex came over. I told him the food was on the counter go and fix him a plate. He looked at me like was crazy. I saw the expression on his face and said to him again, the food is prepared and on the counter, fix your plate. I feel if I have to work to buy the food, put it away, cook it, the least anyone can do is fix their plate, especially when I prepared it and sick. He left because I called him trifling for not wanting to fix his plate. I told him once before his mother does not live there. She prepareds his food, fixed his plate, washes his dishes and even talks baby talk. Comon, eat all your veggies. This man is going to be 52 years old at the end of the month. Am I trifling or is he? Excuse me?????He is your EX and he comes over and eats your food and then expects you to fix his plate? That is just plain insane. You owe him no explanation whatsover. He left? Good. Let him buy, prepare, cook, fix his plate and clean up his own mess. He wants you to tell him his mother doesn't live there. Don't give him the satisfaction of an explanation. If he comes over, let him look around and find food for himself. Stop wiping his butt. No maam. You deserve to relax and in fact, they should be making a plate for you and cooking for you every once in a while. I'm glad you told him. Men-especially men that are babied by their mothers-have a hard time adjusting to not being waited on like what their mothers do. He is. It's not his fault though. He has no home training. He was raised to expect to be served. both of you but you have a good heart may the red wolf not get you down and keep out of the sun F*** him! You're sick and he's not a child. Kick his a** to the curb!! just remember - he's your EX - keep it that way - the man seems to have no respect or appreciation for you!! He is... if you are sick you need to be relaxing. 52 years old and the man can't take care of himself... He better start to learn fast.... Mom won't be around for ever and if this keeps up neither will you. |
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