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HELP,im 15, my girlfriend has LUPUS, what should I do? |
my gf found out that she has lupus this summer and now shes really depressed and so Im I. she doesnt want to hang out or do anything fun anymore and shes dropping all her sports, e.t.c and is acting like her life is over. I feel bad because i dont want to be with her anymore because shes not fun anymore but I dont want to break up with her and make her feel more miserable. What should I do? oooh thats tough because then it looks like you are dumping her because she is sick. Make her do fun stuff (surprise her with a picnic or something) and pour all your heart into it. If she still doesn't come around break up. score perocet for her! Duh! Tell her life is short and she should be enjoying what time she has left in this world. Life is short enough for people without LUPUS. whats lupus Learn more about the condition and look for a support group. The Lupus Foundation of America is a good starting point http://www.lupus.org/newsite/index.html... first off.. you'd be a dumbass to break up with her just cuz shes not "fun" anymore. what kind of horrible monster would do that to someone?!?! next.. if you really love her, you should be there to give her support when she's feeling down... i know its hard when somone you care about cant do the things you guys used to do, but to drop them just because of something like that is way shady... holy crap man... how would you feel if YOU got sick and you stopped playing sports and the person you cared about dumped you cuz you werent "fun" anymore?!? really though.. you should be more supportive and understanding of the situation. do research on the illness and learn about it...maybe you'll learn something that'll help her be more comfortable when she gets sicker. The best thing you can do is be honest, and it's going to hurt as well that's why you dont want to. I feel bad for you both especially you, because this is the time when relationships grow, and I understand you want to have fun, and your young pray to GOD first, ask him and then make your decision. |
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