I feel like I'm on menopause?

I really feel like im on menopause, im grump at times, fusterated, i get weak and flashes every now and then. I feel sick and light headed at times. Lately i been pretty strict about everything.
My wife says its my hormones. I dont know but id lkike to get it taked care of.
I get 8 hours of sleep, i havent worked myself to death, i have good health, i eat really good and take walks n stuff. Any advice or help? I cant go to a doc. So please no "Go to a doctor" answers. Thanks!

Well, if it's something medical, I guess you're just going to have to watch it get worse since you refuse to go to the doctor. If it weren't for the weakness, lightheadedness and feeling sick, I would guess depression. Men tend to experience anger and irritability rather than sadness when they are clinically depressed. Two things I would think about checking are your blood pressure and blood sugar. You can go to any Primacare and they will take your blood pressure for free. Or you can take it in the pharmacy. Blood sugar, well, that's a doctor thing, so I guess you're just going to have to go into a diabetic coma if that's the case. It does sound like a medical issue, so refusing to go to the doc means you're just going to have to deal with it.

hormone imbalance?

go to the doctor, those symptoms arent fun, and they are not only just cause b menopause.

how would u know what menopause even feels like?