All women that are going thru menopause EVIL?????

every woman that i have met at the age of menopause that complain of hot flashes, always give me a hard time at work. and i have quit a couple of jobs because i couldn't put up with their menopausal mood swings. im dealing with one at the job i am at now. I am just realizing that this is the reason she is making my life hell. Im thinking about killing myself before i get to menopause just to save grief to other people. Please someone tell me that not all menopause women are not all evil. or are they??????

3 other people i work with have also complained to the supervisor about how hard it is to work with her. but i always just ignored her, but she doesn't let me, she is in my face now.

they just pissy cause they cant have babies anymore.

Yeah, all them experience those swings of mood you mention. Some experience that in a stron way, others not. I suggest to look for a third party, communicate this to a superviser, a cooworker or other relatedperson, it is not about quiting the job, it is about talk, she probably knows about it, and she needs to work on that, so you'll have a better working enviroment.

I am in peri-menopause and I am not the way that you describe. My mother wasn't like that when she went through menopause.

Did it occur to you that the problem is YOU if you have so many issues with these women? Maybe the mood swings are due to the crappy job you do and they are pissed that they have to clean up after you?

Just remember what they put you through and take note when you start doing that. Hormone levels can fluctuate early. I'm 38 and already mostly through this. I have hot flashes that leave my family freezing in the morning, and I no longer put up with crap that I used to. I think it's just because I'm old enough to know what I want and need.
Dealing with the lack of sleep is the hardest thing sometimes, though.

I think that you may be confusing their real personalities with menopause. I know from experience that it is a very hard thing to deal with, but it does not turn us into bit**** unless that was already there to begin with. I can say that my family had only the complaint of my sweating all the time, and wanting the A/C on when everyone else felt cold.

It is a hormonal thing, like puberty. Sometimes too women with pms can react similarly. Mood swings are part of the picture. When you get pregnant hormones create similar havoc in the mind-body. Try to remember your own puberty and have some compassion. It is often a difficult time for women.

Well if she is attacking you for no good reason, maybe you should go to her supervisor and tell them.

If you are screwing up- try not too...

Not all menopausal women are nuts- my MIL is mp and besides hot flashes you wouldn't know.

Maybe do some nice things for her like bring her chocolate in the mornings lol.

menopause is a lie. evil old wretched ladies use it as an excuse to be horrid. i don't mean its a lie scientifically, but just because youre in menopause doesnt mean you have to be evil.

All women that the body go thought charge.

Well , my thought on the subject is YES we are all EVIL ..... LOL.. I myself am one of the evil ones.. It can be a very hard time.. I take hormone replacement.. But, some people choose not to or can't because of heath issues.. If I couldn't take mine .. I would maybe be dangerous ( not kidding).. It really does affect people in different ways and can be really bad for some people.. Maybe you should just try to keep that in mind when you deal with them.. And as for being worried about how you will be.. I am assuming that it will be awhile... Maybe they will have a cure or you can do the hormone replacement thing.. It comes with health risk.. But I figure it is my health or the physical and mental health of my loved one and anyone else I cross paths with... So when dealing with us evil ones.. Just try being nice to us and think ..poor thing.. : )