My wife has Multiple Sclerosis, sex question?

My wife has MS and she has classic signs of sexual dysfunction associated with her illness.

Every site that I see talks about talking and cuddling and stuff, but that is not doing much to help me in this situation. As a person with a healthy sexual drive, where can I find information that is helpful to me, not aimed at the partner who is sick.

I am 100% monogamous, and intend to stay that way, but when it is time to get down and dirty, cuddling and talking about my feelings is not enough. Yes, it has its place, but not every time.

HI there..
As a women with MS I can tell you you probably won't find much info on this subject..When I was diagnosed I went looking for answers and was very disappointed.
Lack of sensations are a HUGE issue..One sight I found suggested holding a bag of frozen peas on the affected area..ARE YA KIDDING ME?? Talk about a mood breaker..If this is her issue it's not an impossible situation , it just takes more effort on your part..Take some extra time with the foreplay . Oral helps, Toys help and some of the "couples " lubes ..I found some minty gel in an adult shop once that gave kind of a tingly sensation too.
If your wife is newly diagnosed , it takes some time to adjust ..in the early days..It's hard to see yourself as a sexual person , you just focus on the MS but that will pass. Let her know that you still see her as a sexy woman and that she still excites you and make her feel sexy..Good luck and hang in there !

Try other stuff, use sex toys for her so she can eventually orgasm.

If it's not enough for you, and you're not happy, I don't know what to tell you.

Your wife has a condition, if you love her, you'll accept it and work through it.

"In sickness and in health"