PLEASE HELP! Pregnancy questions!?

I'm 20 years old (if that detail helps).

Me and my ex had unprotected sex 3 times, in which he came inside me, almost 4 months ago. I had been on the pill but not conmitted like I should have been.

My periods have always been a strong flow and last 7 days. The last four months they last 1-2 days max with barely any blood at all. My boobs have gotten so huge, I'm extremely tired all the time, my emotions are up and down like a roller coaster, my stomach has a small bump that is hard, I have to pee like every 5 minutes, I have a headache a day, I feel constipated but I don't have to go to the bathroom, my gums are bleeding, and I have food cravings.

I've continued to stay on birth control because my parents will notice if I don't take the pills.

I've taken 2 tests both say negative!

Anyways my period (techinally is supposed to be next week) and I'm spotting today.

I'm really scared. I don't have the money for the doctor and they won't tell me anything over the phon

You don't say when you took the tests. It's possible to have a negative test even if your pregnant, especially very early on in the pregnancy. The best time to take a test is the first pee of the morning becuase the urine will be more concentrated.

It's very unlikely that you would have a negative test and be pregnant if you're 3 or 4 months along. Something would probably have to be wrong with the test itself.

As far as the bleeding your having. It's not uncommon for women to have a small amount of spotting or a very light, short period at their time of the month during the first third of the pregnancy (1st trimester).

It sounds like you have looked up the physical signs of pregnancy: Breast enlargement and soreness, morning sickness, tummy bulge, frequent urination, etc. If your really having all these symptoms you need to have a test done by a professional. You should probably go to the health dept.

The other possibility is that you looked the symptoms on-line and are so nervous you've managed to convince yourself that you have all of them.

if you've had more the on negativ test.. YOUR NOT PREGNANT
use a condom if your arent going to be taking your birth control right and you wont have to worry about these kinda things

Go to the health dept.

Go to the health department It's free!!

Your birth control pills are probably responsible for most of your symptoms, especially the shortened periods. You will hardly find a girl who still has a 7-day period after she's been on the pill for a significant while.

It comes down to this---if you were four months pregnant, you WOULD have gotten a positive pregnancy test by now. Take one more home test and then forget about it.

Mention your bleeding gums to the dentist at your next cleaning. It's much easier and cheaper to deal with periodontal problems in the early stages. Trust me on that.