MY GIRLFRIEND IS TAKING A PREGNANCY TEST!!?

man this is to much for me, my girlfriend told me today that she thought she was pregnant, now she wants me to come over because she going to take one of those pregnancy test, i mean i want to be supportive and be there with her but this is to much for me in one day. Should i go over? What if it does come out positive? what should i say? i will support her no matter what happens.

You have to think how your girlfriend feels too. She will be the one carrying the baby, etc. I think you should go over no matter how you feel, for moral support. It can be a very unwelcome surprise when that test shows you 2 lines, trust me I've been there and I'm married but only 20... So yes it is very frustrating and has been for me and my husband but now we are more excited than ever. And what helped is that my husband was there to support me, and now she is all he talks about. Good luck and I'm not trying to tell you what to do but I think you know it'd be best if you went over there.. :)

kind of coincidental, i had to tell my boyfriend i was late today. but then i got my period like 2 hours after i told him. he reacted perfectly, he hugged me and told me everything would be okay and just held me. and when i told him the fortunate turn of events, he was really happy and all of that. just be there for her, make sure she knows you're really in this 100%. it was really comforting, that through that whole scary experience and all the thoughts i had, to know that he was there for me and put my feelings of worry above his own. that's all you can really do, and if she's pregnant, just accept her decision if she wants to keep it or not and support her. :) hope this helped.

You should go over there. Not only would it be the morally ethical thing to do, but it proves that you are a real man and indeed DID have the balls to stick by your girl if she is pregnant. And if she is, then it happened for a reason. Be supposrtive of her. Imagine what she is feeling right now. If she's pregnant, then she's going to have to deal with alot more of the bad than you are. Girls take on most of the work with motherhood. Don't be another guy who might knock some girl up and not be there for her. Be the guy who shows he has heart and character and will be there to fix his mistakes.

If she is pregnant, I bet you anything once she has that baby you won't be able to believe how you two could have created such a beautiful thing.

Go over there. I know this is hard on you but think about it in her position, its no walk in the park for her either. Just be there for her cuz she's probably freaked out like you are. If it comes out positive then talk about what you two want to do. Their is options like keeping it, adoption, or abortion. If it comes up positive she might just need a shoulder to cry on so don't push the subject quite yet.Tell her that you'll be there for her in whatever she chooses to do and then let her take some time to think bout it some other time.

Too much for you?

What in the world do you think she is going though? You barely have to do anything. She has to carry the baby and gain weight and give birth and everything. Maybe if you weren't ready for this responsibility, you shouldn't have had sex. You should probably get off the computer and get over there.

You should defiantly go over there. If it鈥檚 hard for you then it鈥檚 probably just as hard for her. If she asked you to come over she needs you. What ever the results you can support each other. Good luck!

too much for you?

how do you think she feels?
shes the one thats gonna be carrying the baby and going through child birth not you.

just be supportive of her and yes go over there.

Of course you better get over there. Also be sure that it is being taken when it should. She should take it with her first bathroom visit in the morning.

if you didn't want to feel like this why didn't you wait was it that important for you to stick a penis in her vagina

yes you should go over there