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Please I need to hear from someone who had to end a pregnancy for medical reasons? |
I was part of the January Due Date Club and last Tuesday at 18 wks my baby was diagnosed with semilobar holoprosencephaly. She had only half a brain, heart problems and other deformities. Chance of survival was 0%. I had to have a medical induction, as her she had water on the brain and it was causing her head to swell. Emma Catherine was born alive and we had the chance to hold her and kiss her for an hour. Then she went to God. My heart aches so badly and I want to be pregnant again so bad that I can't stand it. Has anyone had a similiar situation? I feel so alone. Is it normal to feel this way? What should I do? I have never been in your situation but my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I have worked in a hospital before and I've had friends who have lost babies. My best advice is to find a support group in your area that deals with neo-natal loss. Most communities have some sort of grief-loss support group. I bet if you call your Dr. or the hospital where your baby was born they will have some information for you. If you can't find a group in your area, please at least seek counseling through a therapist or a church. I know there are other parents out there just like you who are dealing with this heartache. I'm sure hearing their stories, and telling your own story, will really help you in the grieving process. Good luck and God bless! try agIN MY CUOSIN HAD 8 MISCARAGES JUST TRY AGAIN I AM SO SORRY :( I am so sorry to hear that. It's very much normal to feel the way you do. God works in mysterious ways and you have to keep faith in him no matter what happens. You will meet again some day. You should seek counseling I believe it is the most important. You will never get over what has happened and you will never forget. Take one day at a time and please remember to have faith and believe that one day you will be together again and for whatever reason this has happened to you, you have to continue to believe. I have not had a similar experience and I'm not sure if I could handle that situation, your a strong person, just hang in there and just remember you can't change what has happened all you can do is remember her pretty little face and the few minutes that you did have together. God will take care of her and you. Hey hunny I am really sorry to hear about everything. Your baby is with the lord now in heaven .."Before you were born, I knew you" he says ..in the bible I am not sure which verse but it is one of my favorites your daughter had a purpose to be born its hard to see past these things in hard times. Your tittle says mom of 3 congrats grl!! I am sure you have your hands full, it is normal I am sure losing some one..young or old is the worst thing any person could go through. Stay strong and walk with the lord because he has great plans for you and your family love & blessings - Kerry Hon, it is totally normal to feel this way. Regardless of how you feel, its normal. Very few of us ever have to go through the pain of something like what you went through. But, you know in your heart that she's not going to suffer. She'll always be with you in your heart (and your husbands) and yes definately keep trying! Good luck with everything :) |
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