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| *Women health>>>Pregnancy |
Should a single woman be obligated to tell her boyfreind if she wants to terminate a pregnancy? |
And if you believe yes or no, please explain why. Under what circumstances should she be obligated to tell? What if the pregnancy would effect her health or that of the child? Women don't need a man to tell them what to do with their own bodies we don't tell them what to yet they're always makin laws for us. i say it should be the womens choice to tell or not to tell. If you got a good man that will try to be understanding then maybe ou might want to tell him whats goin on but if you got a dead beat or a asshole who can't dig his head out. i wouldnt tell him but that's just me well first of all if shes sleeping with the guy she isnt single, unless shes a ****, she is not obligated, but morally if there is even 1% of a chance she would keep it she should talk to him and see how he feels about it, it might change her mind.... I think that morally yes she is obligated to tell him. Unless she made that baby by herself he should have some input into whether or not he agrees with terminating the pregnancy. Ultimately its her decision though No, I wouldn't think so because it is her body to do with what she pleases. I'm not sure if he knows she's pregnant, but if so then she might need to tell him her decision to prevent confusion, but if he doesn't know then she could just have the procedure w/o his knowledge. It really depends on the situation, because if they were long term and had future plans to stay together then he might need to know, that would be a little important. Of course if her health were involved then she should carry on with the procedure, you've got to weigh the benefits. If it is a health issue or a product of rape, I believe, those are the only reasons for terminating a pregnancy. Even though you are carrying the baby he has a right to know because the baby was made by both of you, you did not get yourself pregnant. So I think it is selfish to keep it from him. You are always obligated to tell because it took the two of you to decide to have sex and it should take the two of you to decide how to handle the consequences but ultimately it is up to you and don't do anything because you are worried of what people think. Plus, if you terminate, later when you realize what could have been you will never forgive yourself.....it's hard and over time it will eat at for the rest of your life. ........ It's the woman carrying the baby so she has the right to decide. I do think the father should have some say in the matter as well, since he helped create the child. But, if the pregnancy is effecting her health then she should definitely feel obligated to tell her boyfriend she wants to terminate the pregnancy. I'm not a big fan of abortion. I don't believe it should be used as a form of birth control for some hoe who got knocked up.. but in other circumstances, for example if the mothers life was in danger or if someone was raped.. those are really the only justifications I can make for abortion. |
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