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| *Women health>>>Preparing for Surgery |
What would you do with a husband who is getting critical surgery and in order to prepare for all possibilities |
is writing his will. He is giving his two grown daughters who have never written, called, or been in contact with him their whole life,1/2 of his insurance. Meanwhile, me and my kids have put up with his awful temper and inconsiderate crap for 7 years. We got insurance so if one or the other died, the house would be paid for and now this. Should I go pinch off his oxygen tube? Respect his wishes. He's just trying to take care of all of you the best he knows how. he can do what he wants but if he lives through this, you ought to think twice about your relationship...good luck Or not. Maybe he's so fed up with you guys, that he doesn't think you deserve it. In the end, its his choice. Deal with it. You money hungry gold digger! You didn't have to be with him for 7 years. Get a job you loser!!! Leave it be. He is just realizing his true mortality. As for the other kids, you need to stop being so petty over it. They were in his live before you and they will still be his daughters if you leave. Nothing can change that. Just be supportive and enjoy the time that you have with him while you still do. If something happens and he don't make it, then the last thought that would be on your mind is the mental fight that you had, and not that you said that you loved him, and the time that you shared. Worry more about that then the money. It is only money. You still get half, and that is better than nothing. You can survive off of that. But can you survive if you knew that your attitude over the money might have ruined the chances for the last few moments over pure happiness that you could have shared with him? Bite your tongue for even thinking of harming him. You chose to stay with the man for 7 years, now accept what he wishes and put yourself above such thoughts. If he recovers from his surgery, divorce him, if your lucky and have a good lawyer, you'll get all the house and the kids plus child support. You may have to pay the mortgage from now on though, but you will have peace of mind and freedom from abuse. yep! |
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