How to live life stress free? like not give a **** about things that dnt matter?

Hi,
for the first question... you can't.
for the second... learn patience, acceptance, and compassion.
you can learn how to better cope with stresses, and to tolerate the things that just aren't worth ruining your good mood over.
that's all i got.
peace

Well, personally thats impossible for me.
Its sometimes just your personality,
Eat blue berries if your stressed...
dont do medication... youll end up either
obsessed with them [that happened to my Father]
or youll freak out about the cost.
Just when something bad happens
lay down think about it... just completely
process it. Youll end up realizing nothings that bad.

If a death happens... theyres no help. "/
Sorry... Hope you get better?

impossible. theres a glint of everything that may stress or bug someone. anything. So what your trying to achieve is impossible....

we learn to accept it and cope with it.

this is hard but im so down the same road.....i cut off my drama filled friends, when someone tells me something like rumers or drama, i dont run my mouth, i just stay out of everyones stuff......then things might start looking out for ya

You are responsible for who you are and what you put up with. Not giving a **** is a kind of zen you have to find on your own. Nobody can tell you how to do it.

You are responsible for your reactions-not other peoples actions. Take control of yourself, let the rest of the world (at least the ones you don't love) do whatever they do....

You could use drugs that create apathy about everything (like prozac) or you could just stop focusing on things that don't matter.

Accept that there are no facts only interpertations and you have the power over the way you interpert everything in your life.

Check out ( http://www.tipsforreducingstress.com ) they have some really good information that should help.