I ejaculate quickly sometimes after a few strokes, and then stay longer is it normal? and is there any way?

I can stay averagely? Is there any given time that a 'regular' person should go before ejaculation? how much is quicky how much is normal and how much is considered as abnormally longer?

hmmm, as a matter of fact I am not talking about Musterbation..

Mate there's no standard in these things. every body brings along his own story, his own instructions & his very own way of doing things. Sometimes we interfere with these instructions in what we feed it & how we take care of it. but this doesn't seem to be one of those.

There are males that take quite a long time, which is unusual. because this action wasn't created for fun purposes it was mainly passed to us so we can ejaculate in our partenrs and grow a family together. So don't feel strange or weird, yes there are lots of guys that ejaculate very quickly, others take longer & others seems to c*m after ages which in my opinion isn't nice.
the penis has a particular area in which we feel what's going on & it's the same place that sends our minds what we're feeling. I believe this is the tip of the penis & even the circle around it, the rest of the penis seems to give minimal pleasure. If you really wanna dealy it, there are lots of ways mentioned on the net on what & how to do while masturbating ( I mean with your hands & not taking any medications) which these guides I cannot guarantee that they're either healthy or succesfull.

If you're afraid for when getting with a woman, you shouldn't because man are best having an ejaculation before intercourse as the duaration until the next will be quite longer. so doesn't matter much how quickly you ejaculate, cos you'd just have done it before you start.

Man try not to obsess yourself on these things, & the way you seem to be worrying on just simple matters aren't really needed. Try also not to victimse yourself for masturbation that's disgusting when let's say a man not a boy(cos a boy might be experiencing new things, but a mature man not)when masturabting very frequently.

In my opinion masturbating is healthy, but you know what's also healthy when masturbating after quite a time since the last one I'm meaning week/s. That I feel is the only really required by our instinct & would feel best always when it's left to respond to us back & let us know the real time when we have to do it.
Hope I've been of any help or at least courage.

Take care mate & God bless,
Ian - Malta

your normal,,,

i think the average is about 2.5 minutes. but ive seen from 30 seconds to an hour. it really varies on the person and how turned on you are at the time.

if this is happening during intercourse with someone else you can try squeezing it to "cancel" the orgasm or stopping for a minute (you can just stop or even stop and suggest a new position)

it is normal to ejaculate quickly when masturbating. when during sex it is much different.

I can go quick myself, but during sex much longer.

practice makes perfect. don't squeeze it too tight now

It is the same as me,i can have it happen in less than 1 minute which happens most times.But if i do it every day it seems to last a little longer.

You can improve your performance basically through 2 things... exercise and herbal supports.

Try to breathe with your mouth, instead of with your nose. Every time you feel like coming, stop your motion. When you succeed in postponing your orgasm, you can start again. This exercise will later on give you the ability to CONTROL your orgasm.

Secondly, I suggest you also add safe herbs to your effort. You can see great results faster.

Good luck :-)

you normal

when I am with a young bloke I generally get him to *** in the first few minutes then give him a rest.

then I fire him up again. young men have so much energy.